i think its rude

[justimpatient79]

so a couple of years ago. my cousin left her babys father after 10 years. they have 2 kids together. which are my little cousins. she left him for a girl and started getting into drugs and stuff like that. she wasn't watching her kids. she was letting them sleep in the closet and while she was high she would let random creepy guys stay in the rooms with her kids. one of those guys molested her daughter and we thought at first the little girl was saying that but they took her to the doctor and she had trauma done down there. so we helped her babys father get custody. he said if we helped him get custody we could see them whenever we want. we confessed to something that we witness and he got full custody of them and she only gets visitation. she still is on drugs. anyways. he married a girl i knew since high school and now they have 2 kids together. so they have 2 and my little cousin so 4 kids. they don't let us seem them. the avoid us like the plague and always make excuses on why we can't see them. so tomorrow we are moving into the same apartment complex as them and they are still avoiding us. all we asked is that we say a quick hi outside and when we waited they took another way around and we didn't get to see them. they keep avoiding us and we don't know why. they don't let us see them. we helped them and all that but they always make excuses. we don't ask to spend a whole day we just ask to say a quick hi an they make it a really big deal. it makes us sad those kids are our family and they made us a promise and they still act like we are bad people. it just makes me sad. we live in a same place and we still can't see them. maybe I'm being too dramatic but even my mom feels its really rude that they do that to us. :/

[justimpatient79]

we told them it wasn't just for them to get the kids. we told them it was also for the kids sake. we send them gifts. like shirts and cards for there b days and they told us to stop sending them stuff that we need there premission to send the kids birthday cards and all that. we have tried a lot but for some reason they make excuses for us not to see them and its sad.

[peanutwanted]

Write a letter. Explain your not doing it to get the kids and your not doing it to relay to your aunt. You just love those kids and feel the desire to see them but your willing to do so on their terms. Maybe add little gifts for all 4 kids with the note. And if your religous pray about it. If not send positive thoughts out to them! Ill add you to my prayers. Hope it all works out!