labor or not?

[newmommyDPF]

Im 19 this is my first & ive been having contractions irregular , back pains , migraines , dizziness & diarrhea (sorry) my water hasnt broke . I went to the hospital on the 30thof december and was told my cervix is soft but im not dilated . My due date is January 17th . I just want so help or advice. And if these are not signs is there anything I can do to maybe help or bring on labor ?

[shyloveskai]

Ya no joke i had.contractions all night long a night or two ago and they said unless its regular and painful then dont bother. This is my second baby but my first i was induced so 'going into labor' isnt something im familiar with. Im not dialated and my cervix is soft and partially effaced. Im so excited to have this baby.

[newmommyDPF]

Yes I have the hip pains too and ill feel a contraction or 2 then I wont feel the 3rd its weird. Im just over whelmed with excitement and I dont want to be in labor and dont make it to the hospital in time

[shyloveskai]

My due date is jan 19. I had contractions for 12+ hours but they were not painful just really uncomfortable my doctor said to come in if they were regular and sharp or painful. They eventually went away now ive been in bed for 3 days in so much hip andback pain with random cramps but nothing consistant. I think our time is coming soon for labor but there is no way to know if its coming tomorrow or in a week or two.