Thanks ladies for your reply I will definitely not be having sex for a few more weeks and until iv been to my 6week check up at the doctors. Im starting to feel a little bit better down there and ill be abit more gentle next time thanks ladies :-) x
As far as I'm aware the 6 wk thing is now a pretty outdated thing, its usually until you have finished bleeding and feeling like your back to normal, I wouldnt put yourself through the wringer because you've had sex earlier than 6 wks, your lucky :) most women wouldnt want a bar of it :) so I would say that you may have bruised your cervix, especially if its still tender now, I wouldnt have anymore sex until its either not painful anymore or you see your doctor, and maybe keep the penetration abit shallower for abit :)
The reason they say 6 weeks isn't because of your vagina it's because your body needs time to close your cervix after it had been opened to pass the baby through. You risk infection in your uterus if ou don't wait. If you develop a fever o now but if its just your vagina that hurts then just wait for it to heal. You risk re opening your tare too which if it was small might mean just cosmetically you might have a permanent scar.