Pregnant by possible rape?

[blackhairedlovley]

Right, so i'm 16, and on saturday i got REALLY drunk and kissed a guy. We were kissing and anytime he tried to do more stuff with me i would slap his hand away, but i'm scared because i don't remember everything the whole time i was with him. I can only remember flashes of the time i was with him and kissing him, and i dont remember how i got back to being with all my friends. I'm scared that i passed out and he had sex with me and i wasnt aware. I dont remember him taking my underwear off or him putting his penis inside me at all. Bearing in mind that he was a bit of a creep and was going on most of the night that he "might shag me". is there anyway of me knowing if i am pregnant? How long should i wait to take a pregnancy test? I dont have regular periods so its hard to tell if i have a late period or not.  He did take my mobile phone number after we had been together so i'm assuming if he had raped me then he wouldnt do that, but then i'm scared that i was so drunk i was giving the impression that i wanted to have sex. please help, i'm so scared!

[SantanL]

I addition to everything that anxious207 mentioned, please learn something from this experience.  There is a reason why we should respect minimum age limit to consume alcohol.

[anxious207]

O.k. There are a few things you can do to help you ease your fears. First, Did you feel like you had sex the morning after? Was there any stuff in your underwear?, Next, talk to your friends and ask them to tell you everything they know about the night, Can you talk to him possibly and just tell him that you need to know what happened? If he has your number and calls or if you can get his number from a friend. Just say "sorry to call but I really need to talk to you." Even if your embarassed about calling, DO it anyway, you will feeel better after and its for your safety! You can also take a blood pregnancy test at a doctor's office 10 days after the incident. A urine test 14 days after. Also, do you know when your last period was? Women usually can only get pregnant during a certain amount of days after the first day of your last period. IF you find out that you are pregnant, there is a pill you can get from an abortion clinic that when taken, causes you to bleed everything out. Its like having a heavy period. If you look online "Pill that causes miscarriage" it will give you the name of the pill. This pill can be taken up to your 9th week of pregnancy. No surgery, nothing. Just like having a heavy period. You may also want to get tested for STDs if you find out you did have sex. Its important to get to the bottom of what happened that night. Be proactive. You can do it. I wish you luck and hope that everything works out!

[Karoline2010]

Consult your gynecologist