0+1 and very scared

[Florence711]

Hello there.

I had miscarriage at my 10 weeks when I found out that baby had stopped growing at around 8 weeks. that was devastating.
Im pregnant now again, after my first cycle, and im 7 weeks today(10/03/2010).
Im spotting pink/brown from past 8 days, on and off. . . but what I founf out this morning was enough to get me enough nervous. I woke up at 7am, and found red blood and a small penny size clot. GOD ! I was totally in shock, sure Im gonna miscarry again. I had scan at 5weeks 5 days, where Sonographer could see my gestational sac and yolk sac, but no fetal pole nor heatbeat. She asked me to come back after 2 weeks, tme (8 weeks) which im still not, as Im 7 weeks,
I called in hospital today to come in for an appointment and she rudely told me I cant and I only stay home and wait!

I had miscarriage earlier, and this makes me feel wreck, feeling im gonna loose this baby again.
and why that Nurse rudely told me not allowing me to get another scan? Does she have to pay from her pocket if I get it done?

Dunno whom should I complain about her :(

worried, please somebody help me immediate. prayers for all out there !

[Florence711]

Yes, am in UK, and i highly appreicate both of ur replies, for telling me how to deal with this difficult situation.
U r right probably, I shud hav gone to GP, instead, and ask her to get it done for me. Thanks alot

[tarajanes]

I see your in the uk hun,ignore the hospital staff. and go straight up to A+e you are allowed to do that.ive had several losses each time gone straight up there.of course if it is a mc then sadley there isnt anything they can do.contact the out of hours doctors now,they will probabley recomend you ring your local gp tomorrow who will ring and book you to early pregnancy unit.

[nickieb85]

I would definitely complain. People can be so insensitive sometimes. The only thing about miscarriages is that when they are that early nothing can be done... Maybe that is what she had in her mind and rudely opened her mouth without thinking... I would say if you are really having serious problems then you should go to an er explain the situation and the can give you another scan and possible do some hcg levels for you! I am sorry that she was so rude to you and you need to do what is best for you and your baby.