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After, I give birth to my daughter London, my Husband wants to have more children. I dnt want to get pregnant again because its hard having a infant/toddler and being prego, he wants a big family, but I think one is enough.  Maybe im saying this because Im scared of labor and having to take care more than one child at a time. We will see, being pregnant is great but idk.
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I had my two oldest a year apart. They are now 2 and 3 and I'm due Feb 3rd with our last. Being pregnant while taking care of an infant wasn't bad at all for me, but taking care of a one year old and newborn was tiring! I love how they are best friends now and since they were so close together the 2 year old wants to do everything the 3 year old is doing so she hit milestones a lot quicker and they are just about on the same level now. They  may as well have been twins. That being said, taking care of two kids so close in age is not for everyone! It's definitely exhausting, especially in the beginning. Just when I got my oldest to start sleeping through the night we had another baby that was waking up every hour. And having two poopy diapers to change at the same time is not fun. If you don't want kids close,or even more than one, t's your body, your choice. I love my babes but I definitely wouldn't recommend it.
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Think close aged siblings are cute .. They have someone to bound with my only sibling from my moms side and I are almost 17 yrs apart. I always said I'd want my children way closer in age. But after I give birth to my first baby I wanna finish school and bf agrees idk what I'd do w two little ones hehe. Must be rlly hard but possible. I do want one within four yrs again tho so til then thinking of a birth control to get on. Good luck mommies.
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My husband wants 3 close together and I think that's insane. There's no way I'd get pregnant with a little one to take care of, guys don't get it!
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Well maybe just wait till the baby gets one or two my bf is the same he wants 3-4 I compromised 3 lol but they will be at least 2 years apart n I told him we must be married by our second n he is perfectly fine with that so after I have our baby girl I'm getting on Bc till we are ready for our next I always wanted a nice medium size family :)
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