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mother in law problem
Every time I go to my mother in law house the first thing she does is look at my stomach and always have nothing nice to say she told o that's good your not getting fat. Like wtf obviously im going to get fat sooner or later. 2 she tells me o the first 3month of pregnancy is just for your baby the other months are just weight gaining is that true?? 3 she told me the firat 4 month is the craving part like telling me the rest month you shouldn't grave anything? Is that true? I need help telling her the best way to tell her to stop it without being rude. I hate it I feel like im goinv to explot or talk smak to her. She should worry about her getting fat.
Am so glad we moved. Wish they could understand. My mil did the same walk right in even when we moved a few houses down she would walk right in start "cleaning" but really going through our stuff. Now we live three hours which to them is to far. Hope it all works out for you at cali1904
Right I mean why do they have to be like that. There women to. they should understand. My mother in law is from mexico D.f so that explains everything haha
@Mommabear61 Lol monster in law good one haha. Thats what we should name them from now on haha. I would be mad..that sounds just like my mil when we used to live with her she wanted to know everything came inside our room to be noisy o my I wishh I can move 3hr away. Im actually trying convince my bf to move to Kansas and start our new life over there. But honestly im 100% sure my monster in law will follow us eventually. Lol
My god I was furious. With our second one right now my partner hey we should call my mom am like hell no she can wait after the sh*t she pulled with our first. Yet I don't even know when the last time we saw them.it's been a few years. In laws anyways why do they gotta be like that lol
My monster in law was a pain the day we found out literally the doctor called to confirm positive and I told my partner if I was I didn't want to tell anyone till after three or so months. Anyway I took the call in my room partner was outside i had closed the door while on the phone my mother in law bangs on the door demands to know what's going on I open the door to bypass her but she blocked me was like well what did the doctor say. I said I would rather tell my partner first. She blocked me from going by. So I had no choice then his sister and niece get home from school and she called us out and like what she was like girls they have something to tell you. I said excuse me no not right now. I would rather wait then she blurts it out instead of listening to us anyway she still is and always will be a pain she too miss know it all yet she don't know it all. We decided to move three and a half hours away because how things turned out. Am pregnant with my second one and they don't know yet am going to let them wait
@kellyxoxo my bf was to excited to tell hes mom that we were expecting I didn't seem like she cared if it was for me I would tell her once I was 5month along. I told my mother in law I don't want anybody to know that im pregnant from her family side like her sisters nieces etc she look at me like saying oops that's to late lol and than asked me but why not. I respond they have no right to know my business & she responds but their going to see your stomach once again I respond I hardly even see them how can they see my stomach. We hardly see my bf aunts for the same reason they are to noisy we see them like once or twice a year .
@tanairi4 yea I have decided to speak up the next rude comments she says. She probably doesn't think is rude but it is that's just the way she is anything she has to say she says it. And yea of course I don't care how much weight I fain as long as my bby is healthy. @octoberbaby5 lol well my sure aint trying to take over lol. She trying to ruin my pregnancy. But it aint going to happen because we have girls power lol. Thanks ladies for making feel so much better. It makes me feel bot alonr about the in laws lol
@Cecepretty lmao o my haha she seemed to excited congrats on your newborn. I have decided when I give birth I would only want my bf and my mom with me. When I first told my mother in law I was expecting she made a face like ohh now my son is going to care more about the baby. Yes in laws are in pain in the a** is there any in laws that are awesome where are they? Lol
@OctoberBaby5 right...and f someone says they have the most best in laws ever I think there lying lol
My husband has gotten so fed up with his mom that he totally has quit talking to her and she doesn't even know I'm expecting another baby. Oh well lol doesn't hurt my feelings. But if you ever marry your boyfriend in the future the joke is on her because you are here to stay and not going anywhere! :)
You should tell her well I don't worry about my weight cause I still have your son . Don't be afraid just tell her straight out but not that bad just say what you feel like if I do so what im still beautiful
Mother in laws are literally the most aggravating thing in life when you get pregnant, theyre either not supportive or too supportive to where they wanna take over..
@kellyxoxo that's to far. Idk why mother in laws are like that especially the bf mom's.. yes I think that's the answer she thinks im not good enough for him. My bf knows I dislike going to her house so we try to go only once or rwice a month
Lol u guys think thats something...omg my husbands aunt thinks shes the grandmother/mother of my baby that I gave birth to 6 days ago by the way....she basically was the one who raised my husband and hes her favorite even over her own kids so she feels like our son is hers . .well at the hospital she came to visit and see the baby as well as MY MOM and MY MOM was telling her oh my grandson is soo handsome ,and my husbands aunt says oh thank you...as if my mom was some random and she was the grandmother....and f I do something for my son shell say oh I would of did it this way....like why the hell are in laws such a pain lol
@Alex1216 yea if my bf gets to that level where he believes everything she says . We will be expecting a visit to our doc lol . I want to enjoy my pregnancy not have stressing pregnancy. And if thay means stay away from my mother in law I will stay away right now and when my baby is born
@cali thank you :) this is mine and my husbands second child but when our first was born she was swearing a paternity test because my son was "too light" like WTF ? Really? Lol. & I bet your boyfriends mother has the mentality that no girl can be good enough for her son.
@Octoberbaby5 idk why she so into my weight. She always use an excuses like idk of my sons leaves you for being fat. I habe told my bf idk when im going to put up with that stufd but when I say something im not going to care if u get mad. I've warn him
@Kellyxoxo girl your bby isngoing to come out adorable she should be thank ful. Mother in laws are a pain she hates me because I was the only girl who sat hes son down. She should be happy because he calm down . Idk why she has anger towards me
I'm kinda Laughing at this because my mother in law is the hugest most know it all B I T C H. She's also mean to me because my husband is black and I'm white. She thinks I'm with him for "a black mans money" haha... Mother in laws can be a pain
Whu does she care about your weight so much? Also I didnt even start craving until after four months
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