mother in law problem

[cali1904]

Every time I go to my mother in law house the first thing she does is look at my stomach and always have nothing nice to say she told o that's good your not getting fat. Like wtf obviously im going to get fat sooner or later. 2 she tells me o the first 3month of pregnancy is just for your baby the other months are just weight gaining is that true?? 3 she told me the firat 4 month is the craving part like telling me the rest month you shouldn't grave anything?  Is that true? I need help telling her the best way to tell her to stop it without being rude. I hate it I feel like im goinv to explot or talk smak to her.  She should worry about her getting fat.

[OctoberBaby5]

Haha last part is funny. Why don't you just stop going over there? Thats what I did, it worked for a little. Then she started coming over to my house -_-

[cecepretty]

Yea I bet that is very annoying what she does.....neways noo its not true kus baby gains weight and gets bigger all 9 months so it's both yours and baby weight ....and some woman are different,they experience cravings in the first trimester some in the second and some in the third ....I craved alot toward the end of my pregnancy....mothers just b thinking they know everything...I hate it lol

[cali1904]

Ama make her  a last visit amd if she says something this time nothing is going to stop.me by telling her everything I need to say. &from there im going to stop visiting her. I doubt she'll over my house she always want us to go with her.

[alexx1216]

Lol she started coming over to your house ^^ But anyway just ignore her. My mother in law lives with me & she's always asking how the belly is doing which I don't mind too much, but then she tells me I can't poke my belly. Or sometimes she watches if I eat too much sweets or ugh silly things like that & for some reason I'm slowly starting to resent her & idk why cause really she's the sweetest in the world but oh myy when it comes to my pregnancy... -.-

[cali1904]

Yess she thinks she knows everything. I mention I was loosing my *** lol and shes all like ohh yea yea I think it's a boy with her lido knows it all voice.  Yes I haven't been craving anthing yet in my first tremister but I bet will pretty soon . I hope my bf doesn't take it to seriously what shes saying because i will get butthurt

[cali1904]

@@Alex1216  lol aww but that's different If shes a sweet pie. She just caring over your pregnancy.   My mother in law pretends she cares but she only cares about me getting fat like why does shee cares if I get fat or not.

[alexx1216]

My bf took everything she said straight to the head until I asked everything at the doctors right infront of him so he knows everything I do or eat is fine & he got proven wrong so now that he knows i know he will make sure his mom knows when she sais something to me again. Every woman is different WE who carry are the ones who know best what to do with OUR OWN bodies.

[OctoberBaby5]

She really does, then shell ask me hor "her" baby is doing.. she said I need to understand that its her first grandkid but I told her SHE needs to understand its my first baby and I come first not her in the babys life.. and she also thinks she knows everything, I mean seriously last time you had a baby was 22 years ago, some things have changed -_-

[OctoberBaby5]

Whu does she care about your weight so much? Also I didnt even start craving until after four months

[kelllyxoxo]

I'm kinda Laughing at this because my mother in law is the hugest most know it all  B I T C H. She's also mean to me because my husband is black and I'm white. She thinks I'm with him for "a black mans money" haha... Mother in laws can be a pain

[cali1904]

@Kellyxoxo girl your bby isngoing to come out adorable she should be thank ful. Mother in laws are a pain she hates me because I was the only girl who sat hes son down. She should be happy because he calm down . Idk why she  has anger towards me

[cali1904]

@Octoberbaby5  idk why she so into my weight.  She always use an excuses like idk of my sons leaves you for being fat.  I habe told my bf idk when im going to put up with that stufd but when I say something im not going to care if u get mad. I've warn him

[kelllyxoxo]

@cali thank you :) this is mine and my husbands second child  but when our first was born she was swearing a paternity test because my son was "too light" like WTF ? Really? Lol. & I bet your boyfriends mother has the mentality that no girl can be good enough for her son.

[cali1904]

@Alex1216 yea if my bf gets to that level where he believes everything she says . We will be expecting  a visit to our doc lol . I want to enjoy my pregnancy not have stressing pregnancy.  And if thay means stay away from my mother in law I will stay away right now and when my baby is born

[cecepretty]

Lol u guys think thats something...omg my husbands aunt thinks shes the grandmother/mother of my baby that I gave birth to 6 days ago by the way....she basically was the one who raised my husband and hes her favorite even over her own kids so she feels like our son is hers . .well at the hospital she came to visit and see the baby as well as MY MOM and MY MOM was telling her oh my grandson is soo handsome ,and my husbands aunt says oh thank you...as if my mom was some random and she was the grandmother....and f I do something for my son shell say oh I would of did it this way....like why the hell are in laws such a pain lol

[kelllyxoxo]

This whole post is cracking me up because of how ridiculous in laws are.

[cali1904]

@kellyxoxo that's to far. Idk why mother in laws are like that especially the bf mom's.. yes I think that's the answer she thinks im not good enough for him.  My bf knows I dislike going to her house so we try to go only once or rwice a month

[OctoberBaby5]

Mother in laws are literally the most aggravating thing in life when you get pregnant, theyre either not supportive or too supportive to where they wanna take over..

[Tanairi4]

You should tell her well I don't worry about my weight cause I still have your son . Don't be afraid just tell her straight out but not that bad just say what you feel like if I do so what im still beautiful

[kelllyxoxo]

My husband has gotten so fed up with his mom that he totally has quit talking to her and she doesn't even know I'm expecting another baby. Oh well lol doesn't hurt my feelings. But if you ever marry your boyfriend in the future the joke is on her because you are here to stay and not going anywhere! :)

[cecepretty]

@OctoberBaby5 right...and f someone says they have the most best in laws ever I think there lying lol

[cali1904]

@Cecepretty lmao o my haha she seemed to excited congrats on your newborn. I have decided when I give birth I would only want my bf and my mom with me.  When I first told my mother in law I was expecting she made a face like ohh now my son is going to care more about the baby.  Yes in laws are in pain in the a** is there any in laws that are awesome where are they?  Lol

[cali1904]

@tanairi4 yea I have decided to speak up the next rude comments she says. She probably doesn't think is rude but it is that's just the way she is anything she has to say she says it. And yea of course I don't care how much weight I fain as long as my bby is healthy. @octoberbaby5 lol well my  sure aint trying to take over lol. She trying to ruin my pregnancy. But it aint going to happen because we have girls power lol. Thanks ladies for making feel so much better.  It makes me feel bot alonr about the in laws lol

[OctoberBaby5]

Good, dont let her kill your vibe :) lol