ugh....

[Kayla_kiernan1]

So my aunt always talks crap about how i was a spoiled child. N was kinda a brat growing up but it wasn't like it was my fault. I was sexually abused as a little girl and i had a lot of anger in me and my mom and grandparents would buy me pretty much anything i wanted out of guilt. So now my aunt keeps saying that my daughter is going to be a big brat and that she cant wait to see me go through the process of it. Cause she says your kids are 7 times worse then you. Idk it just gets to me every time she says my kids going to be worse then i was. I mean im not how i was when i was like 9 and 10. I grew up. Sorry for it being super long just had to get it out... :(

[Kayla_kiernan1]

Yeah i just dont want to fight because she will keep it going. My fiance on the other hand is about to say something to her. I try telling him to ignore her and that shes not worth it. But hes about to go off on her very soon.

[kennimae]

You have more patience than I do I would've told her off regardless of it starting a fight or not. My aunt was telling me when she found out that I was pregnant again that my daughter is wonderful so my next will probably be terrible and not sleep. I quickly butted in and let her know its about how you raise and bring up your child and to not call him or her horrible because obviously she doesn't know what she is talking about.

[Kayla_kiernan1]

Yeah i know i shouldnt listen to her but every time i see her she has some rude comment to say. And i dont want to snap at her about it because it will just start a fight.

[sofbel]

Don't listen to her... All kids act up , no one has a "perfect" child. Just teach them right from wrong and your good to go. Enjoy every second of child seriously, even spoiling them... Doesn't matter if its showing them extra love or buying them toys they want . They grow up way to quickly!!!

[Kayla_kiernan1]

Yeah i know im going to teach my daughter the right things. Im going to do my best to make her everything. And prove it to her my daughter isnt going to be like that. It just gets to me  that she thinks she can judge before i have a chance to be a mom. Before im even able to teach her right from wrong.

[shellyssecond]

Prove her wrong

[Nina159]

I get what u mean my mom always told me Ja vas a pagar lo que me isites a mi  meaning my son won't let me sleep at night but he does now I'm having a girl and is saying the same thing but I know I'll teach them right :) grow up be good respectful children not like how kids now a days that just disappoints me not all are like that but a good amount this/ my generation are sad so I'll teach them to be good

[Kayla_kiernan1]

It just gets to me that she just expects my daughter to be a brat. Like she's not born and no one knows how anything is going to be. It makes me feel like she wants me to go through it and have a troubled kid..