my hubbys sister

[chels2115]

Is it bad I think her baby should be taken from her?. Before I get neg response I'll tell you what this poor baby is going to have to deal with . one her living conditions are nasty as hell this girl still lives with her mother in a tiny tiny room the only place she could put her baby is Inthe asame room she keeps four rabbits and let's her dogs and cats poop and strange bugs cover the walls she has a total of three dogs in her room that never go outside to potty and atleast  that I know of siix cats in her room and a lizard now mind this is just her room that's not the animals outside of her room and the ones they keep outside the entire house isfilled with nasty animals fleas and dog poop and cat ppop and pee and non of them that live their see anything wrong with this  she doesn't nor has she ever worked she sleeps allll day and allll night and I have a screenshot of her saying on Facebook that even though she's pregnant her animals are her babies and will come first like how can you put an animal before a child???!!.I got rid of my cat because he wasn't safe for my baby and I feel not a single regret for it and not only does this baby she's bringing into the world not going to have a clean place to lay its poor head but this ***** still smokes pot and smokes cigarettes and she's doing pills I feel so bad for her baby its not funny I don't want to see it live with her because it won't  be sanitary but I don't want to see it end up in a foster home either....

[wyattsmom2015]

Don't take your baby There, it sounds gross and unfit to even visit.

[specialmom]

If you report,, you take all the pressure off of yourself.  The agency will do the investigating and hard stuff.  If they deem an issue, they take action.  And they don't WANT to do that unless they have to and if they have to, then it's right for the baby.  
so, don't be afraid to alert the agency.  And remember, they will offer her help to improve her lifestyle.  good luck

[chels2115]

I just dont want to see the baby end up in.foster care I'm going to try and have a long talk with her but its hard because she thinks she's always right and that her way is best

[RudyMall]

You need to report her asap so that she has as much time as possible to make necessary changes before her baby arrives. It is definitely difficult when you're talking about family, but this child will also be family and it sounds like you might be the only person he or she has looking out for her. At the end of the day, your husbands sister is an adult who needs to take responsibility for herself. The baby is a child who needs those around him or her to take responsibility on their behalf.

[chels2115]

Considering the place is my husbands mothers she expects me to bring my baby their and its not happening I won't even eat their because they let their animals eat off the same plate their eating from

[chels2115]

I just need to sit down and think about the best choice in this situation but I must think.of my own child.also because I won't have mine their