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7670156 tn?1401987192

never noticed before

I never noticed before because no one could really tell I was pregnant. But now that you can kind of tell, I just started noticing people around me giving me dirty looks. Yes, I AM nineteen years old. Yes! I am pregnant! But I also have had my own place, a steady job, a loving boyfriend, I pay my own bills, and I have a supportive family. I've had and don't all this since before I got pregnant. I don't need your judgmental eyes glaring at me!
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Im 22 and a ftm and i havent noticed any strangers giving me dirty looks or talkin bad but that family and "close" friends down me all the time. I smile and act like it aint botherin me but its getting super annoying and its getting harder and harder to bite my tongue. Im 19weeks today and im pretty sure if i get another stupid rude comment from a family member im gonna explode
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Ive noticed that around here its the older people that give me dirty looks at times cause i had my daughter wen i was 21 but most of the dirty looks i get from other people are because my husband is mexican and im white. Plus my daughter came out super white so they act like she aint his they dont realize that my husband looks so dark because he works outside all day but hes naturally light skinned
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6628393 tn?1398789276
This is my second and surprisingly I haven't seen anyone give dirty looks towards me and I am 22.
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I'm 22 and pregnant with my second child and people still looks at me like a I'm crazy ! There just immature people that like to judge just by looking at people..
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7670156 tn?1401987192
Haha, that's funny.
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I'm 20  Ive seen ppl shake there heads at me I just smile make direct eye contact and rub my belly lol
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6077320 tn?1394658308
The joys of looking young. I am 24 yo pregnant with my first and I get dirty looks all the time. Apparently I look young. Keep doing what ypur doing and disregard the dirty looks
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I've never noticed people giving me dirty looks. I also look older tho. The only time any one has ever gave me a dirty look is when I went to the store with my 3 year old daughter,  4 year old niece,  and 6 year old niece. A women keep staring at me. Then finally came up to me and said she couldn't imagine having all those kids so young like me. I was thinking wtf! Seriously!
But since I had all the girls with me. I smiled and Laughed. Informed her one was my daugther.  The two others were my nieces. That I love keeping. She walked away. I hope she felt like the b.i.tch she was. Lol
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