OK thanks I'm going too try I know qtips are a big no they're dangerous for us even
I think just a lightly moistened towel that's warm and only clean the outside.. When I say lightly moistened I mean wet the rag and ring it out until it's almost dry the moisture is just for the warmth
My pediatrician said use a rag to get it out. Using a qtip can be dangerous. My daughter always has so much ear wax.