sooo generally everyone's mom gets on their nerves, right? well, i'm going to my last dr appt this month with her old ob/gyn when i take my siblings home, and then switching to a local dr, b/c of the convenience to me.....well now she's like(again), well, i can't be there when the baby's born, i can't do this, i can't do that, i don't have a car(which is true, BUT me and DF volunteered my car, since i won't be driving for a couple days anyways, and we have 2 cars...)
and now that we have 3 bedrooms, we have room for her and her DF, we've offered my car, even to come GET HER, etc so she can be here at least for the birth, but she has every single excuse as to why she can't make it.....well, i'm changine anyways, when my appt's get weekly, it's gonna cost me about 400/mo in gas alone to get to where her ob is, esp when i have to go to her house to get her, etc.....
NOW, i picked up my siblings last wednesday.....bro is almost 10, sister is almost 14.....mom and sis have been having issues, and me and DF figured we'd bring sis 1st for a week by herself, give her some time alone, and such.....and then go get brother for the other 2 weeks they'd be here ( i take them for 3 to 4 weeks), and we'd do all the "together" stuff then.....well mom makes every excuse on HER end as to why that won't work.....bro can't stay alone (mom works max 6 hrs a day, and her df's mom would soooo keep my brother!), and then, saturday my sister tells us we can't go to schilterrbahn, cos she's on her period.....so i asked ok wtf not? and my sister says mom won't let me swim on my period(and my mom also says she doesnt but she does), so i ask, ok, do you use tampons? and she practically hollered NO, that my mom says no and that she can't wear them b/c of her age or some****(i was 12 when mom MADE me wear tampons so she didn't have to buy pads AND tampons!), so i went and bought some tampax lites, cos i was like, ok we're not going places she can't go just b/c she's on period.....so i think she's on her 3rd one, and they're not bothering her, and i read the paper to her so she knew the signs of TSS, and all that, showed her the pix on how to "do it", and other stuff.....THEN, she mentions that the little boyshorts i bought her at christmas(that were $6 apiece!), my mom made her throw out, b/c 1 of the pairs had "loops" on one side, so that one side was kind of bare? but me and df(we were sitting and talking about other stuff when she said it), are both like "wait wtf?" what you put ON your BUTT is your private deal, not what someone tells you yes and no too.....it's not like she could have stuffed $1's in them! and apparently my mom hates my ability to MAKE my sister buy stuff that ISNT black, and my mom can't (explained below), so she(mom) made sure to let me know not to bother buying the kids ANY clothes(even though she sent them with ONE week of clothes for a MONTH!).....both kids are into naruto, and we're trying to wean my sister off, and she likes to wear alot of black, but when i take her shopping, rather than just flat out telling her NO, i just try to find whatever she found in black, in a different color! and it WORKS!.....but my mom will just holler at her in the store, and buy what SHE wants(yes it's her money, but she will buy my sister clothes that don't fit right, or are so cheap, in 2months my sister needs a whole new wardrobe).....idk, i guess my mom is driving me crazy! she also told my sister to ALWAYS keep *something* on her(maxi's etc), because it was absolutely GROSS to talk about your period/cramps/symptoms with other girls.....she has pretty much made out to my sister that her period is this OMG TOTALLY UNSPEAKABLE THING that happens to everyone, but that it's disgusting.....my sister has no idea how her period works, and when it went out of wack(bleeding 6 weeks straight), my sisters dr put her on a low dose b/c pill to fix it, but only for 3 months....well now my mom won't put her back on the **** and sisters period is outta wack AGAIN.....and she says if she keeps her on birthcontrol she'll want to run off and have sex....OMFG, i'd rather have her on the b/c pill either way, b/c where she lives, it takes ALOT not to have already lost your *V*, and she hasn't.....better safe than sorry, oh and when i asked what it is that's throwing her period off, the "dr says it's normal".....um, noooo.....my sister has had her period for 2 years, it should have somewhat regulated, not just all of a freakin sudden, gone to bleeding for 6 weeks, off for 2 weeks bleed some more etc....oh and the dr gave my sister b/c pills WITHOUT a pelvic exam or ANYTHING that might show something actually wrong! and my mom's like, she doesn't need a pap she's not sexually active!!! aghhhhhhhhhhhh.....ok i'm done, there's more, but i've gotten most of it off my chest lol.....