plz help me m in big trouble......

[jyoti786]

m 17, can i get pregnant in teen age when periods goin normally n with no symptoms of pregnancy since 2 -3 months after an unprotected sex? I had mated 36+ hours earlier n dis time m thinking something....as my partner is also not sure. we use withdrawl method. Should i take a pill? will it have any side effects or any kind of impact later? is dere any other method of pregnancy tests coz i dont want to go out of the room?
as 36+ hrs hav been passed away n If i want to take the morning after pill doze, should i take both of them together or acc. to its schedule? is it risky to take pill at this age? and if suppose m not pregnant n i take d pill doze what will it do..will dere be any kind of risk?
Plz help me friends..

[carissarae]

i dont think she is a fake

she says she is from india, so her english is pretty broken up and they use different terms,i think she is just confused on which words to use..

but none the less it is kind of confusing.

i dont agree with the morning after pill, from what i have read it can really mess your body up. you should read up on it before you make any decisions! good luck

[irrelevance]

**She must be foreign/have english as a second language, if she is indeed sincere... :/ that's my only guess.

[irrelevance]

Whoa, I only read a few responses, and this may be mean, but look. perfect example of why the under 20 forum could potentially turn into a disaster...  I understand everyone's concern for the fact that there may be young women lost just like her, hardly making any sense, trying to help eachother. Although at the same time I do know the forum is moderated...but still..
Well, they still come here anyways.. hm... wow... SO, regardless...
My response to this mess is the same as everyone elses... If you're so concerned, stop having sex. Or atleast use birth control AND condoms. Try the morning after pill if you really feel the need to..But it's your decision, not ours.

[lazenza]

Can I pls add that birth control (pill) does not stop any STD's so I would advise you to start using condoms too!!!!!!!

[jesslee83]

ok if it has only been less than 2 days, you CAN TRY IT, but it MIGHT NOT be effective.....why do you keep asking about harm? i dont think we can help you as you're asking questions that i really think only a dr can answer for you...

go get the EC/planB then wait a few weeks, and GET ON BIRTH CONTROL.....the EC just keeps the sperm from fertilizing the egg, i dont think there would be "harm" that's the point in the EC.....and if it's only been 36 hours, then we can't tell you wether or not you would be pregnant.....

[jyoti786]

but its not too late jus 36+ hrs hd been passed. will dere b ne harm?

[BUTTERFLYCOTTON]

1. Don't take the morning after pill...it wont work, its too late.
2. Go and buy a home pregnancy test and test
3. If it's negative, you could wait a couple of weeks and try again. If it's positive you have to go to the doctor and they will help you.
4. Either way, you have to go to the doctors if you want to go on the pill. The pill will stop you from getting pregnant if you remember to take it.
5. Don't use the withdrawal method. It doesn't always work. The pill or condoms are the best way.

Hope this is clear to read :)

[jesslee83]

a *troll* is someone who posts bs threads to either create an arguement between members or just to be retarded.....but she keeps responding and my thing now is that

NONE(TMK), of US are doctors, and you MUST go to the local CLINIC and if you ARE having periods then you SHOULD NOT be pregnant and if you HAVE taken a pregnancy test you can TAKE AT HOME IN PRIVACY and it did NOT say PREGNANT then you are NOT PREGNANT. i AM NOT feeling WE are helping give YOU the answer YOU seem to WANT US TO GIVE YOU.....you WANT us to tell you that you ARE NOT PREGNANT for ABSOLUTELY SURE however only a DOCTOR can do a BLOOD TEST AND PELVIC exam to determine if you are TRULY PREGNANY OR NOT.....can i be more clear???

and to OP, by saying the grammar is so different i meant that at one point you are *talking* with a very very heavy accent be it indian or african american, and then you are *talking* with a very clear, concise, perfect american english and grammar.....idk i give up.....i thank those for help you've given me however, she keeps mentioning the EC and plan B, and do they even market that in india? and again, we've told her repeatedly she is probably not pregnant, yet she keeps asking the same questions....

[Kim1989]

basically no. it wont really do anything horrible there have been a LOT of women who take it and never were pregnant in the first place

[JoyRenee]

It will make you bleed and possibly throw your hormones off a little.

[jyoti786]

somebody plz tell me is it risky to take pill if suppose m nt pregnant. (jus to avoid risk)

[jyoti786]

no i not taking hpt as a birth control.
EC is morning after pill. There r 2 methods :
1. Through plan B
2. EC (morning after pill)

Okay u think m not pregnant, and suppose m not, n i take EC will there any harm to the body?

[jyoti786]

Wht is troll i dun knw (luv2bmommy)

[Kim1989]

she said its an emergncy contraceptive (plan b)

[jyoti786]

Thanks JoyRenee.

[luv2bmommy]

a home pregnancy test isnt a form of birth control if that is what you were asking. Im not familiar with the term EC...what is that? a home pregnancy test will just tell you if you are pregnant or not. Yes they will most likely take blood at a clinic, and a pap smear is where they insert a swab into your vagina and take a sample of the tissues, etc. in there. it is a little uncomfortable but not painful

[Kim1989]

i would say no if you have been still getting your monthly period

[jyoti786]

m from india.
EC means emerygency contraceptive (2 doze pills)
see kim i meant dat dis time i hav jus a 2% doubt and as everything went fine earlier i think dis time also it would go.

overall wht do u think could i be pregnant?

[JoyRenee]

Okay, let me help you understand fertility a little better. You can become pregnant about two weeks BEFORE your next period is due. If you've had periods for the past 3 months with negative pregnancy tests, you're not pregnant.

The next time you could take a pregnancy test is when your NEXT period is due. There is no need to take EC or Plan B. You're probably not even pregnant.

A clinic would give you a urine pregnancy test. You'd just pee in a cup. Wait until your period is due.

[luv2bmommy]

what? hidden things in pictures? honey do you think you could slow down while typing a little so we can understand exactly what you are trying to say? im sorry its just hard to follow... do you know about sex and the reproductive system? if you would go to a free clinic they will tell you and maybe they will have handouts for you to read. if you are going to be having sex it is important, VERY important to know how these things work.



Ladies- what is a "Troll"???

[jyoti786]

thanks. but instead of goin for hpt should i take EC? Coz i had been mating since 2-3 months n everything's fine at all...periods goin normally,,everything's fine..

Wht do they do at clinic..jus blood sample or something else?

[Kim1989]

where are you from?

i dont get what your saying. you used the withdrawl method for about 2-3 months?
you have had normal periods?
u also think m nt preg n i also think so should i go with EC jus to avoid risk?  what is EC?

[jyoti786]

**see the HUGE difference in the grammer and such? **
I dint understand these words.. explain it again

[luv2bmommy]

go to the store, or if you are embarrassed have your parnter do it, buy a Home Pregnancy Test, there are several brands- E.P.T, first response, but any will do. read the instructions carefully, follow them step by step (basically take it with your first pee in the morning, take cap off, angle it downward, and pee on the end, take test and lay it on a flat surface, wait for results, to be read within 5 minutes) if the test says you are pregnant then you must look into your options (what you want to do with the baby), if not, then see a doctor or go to a free clinic, have a pap smear to check for diseases and ask for birth control. and pick up some condoms as well.