pregnancy rant

[mom_520]

So my bro and his gf had a baby back in March she didn't make it she was born at 21weeks it was hard on the entire family so now I'm pregnant I'm 38 weeks but every time they come over all they do is tell me how I should feel like I say thing like wen he moves it feels like the bugs from the mummy and I call him an it and I really am not to happy with the weight I've gained but his gf always has comments like oh wen I was pregnant or that I shouldn't say things but she was pregnant for like 2 seconds and was already way over weight I don't see eye to eye with them on parenting and there mad becuz I'm younger and was very spoiled I still live with my mom SO she spoiled the baby but I'm tried of there advise and comments especially becuz they are both mid 20s with out job or diplomas and live with her dad rent free and due to her BEGIN so overweight and other complications she was told it will b near impossible to her to carry a baby to full term and they are still  trying to get pregnant and have 3 possible scares since the loss of the baby I'm just done it really makes me mad like way make them get to to me how I feel

[mom_520]

Thanks for the positive support I'm glad u all don't think I'm just trying to b mean or selfish

[mom_520]

Ya I know that's how it may sound but they both have no ambition and are going no we're they both don't want job they wanna apply for everything they can government wise so they won't b supporting it my mom and I  payed for everything including the funeral at least I have my head on straight they both have no room to tell me how I should run mine or my babies life I did have tons of sympathy for them until they keep trying to bring a child in a situation we're they always are on the verge of BEGIN homeless due to laziness and I was pretty sure we were gonna end up with the last baby but I won't b able to give my bro money like I did the last time so I needed to rant a bit

[454987444274191486_380_5]

Your brothers girlfriend lost her baby. She may want to give you tips about being pregnant to feel involved in your life. It doesn't matter if she was "only 21 weeks" that's pretty far and still sad.

[HayleysMumma]

It's probably just very hard for them to see you pregnant and they may feel unsure of what exactly to say to you. Sounds like she is trying to share and bond with you over something you both have gone through. You don't need to take there advice or listen to their comments. I was pregnant and 17 years old - living at home with my parents and have older siblings, you'll grow a thick skin and try not to focus on other people and what they say just keep moving forward for yourself and your baby. I'm currently 22 years old, I studied for 4 years came out with a degree and a dipolma and have a full time job :)

[Juel19]

**of people

[happymummy3]

If im being totally honest I don't understand what your problem is , and you you come off abit childish and insensitive about your brother and his gfs situation

[3448961922402076755_739_5]

Tell them how you feel or your mom. So they can stop stressing you during your pregnancy

[mom_520]

I just turned 19 but I'm done with school and have a job set up as soon as I'm ready after baby comes

[mandi253]

How old are you? If you dont mind me asking.