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pregnant from fingering?
okay so i am one of the most paranoid people in the entire world when it comes to illnesses or getting pregnant etc. four days ago i hooked up with this guy and we were kissing and i was wearing shorts and underwear and he had his pants off. i gave him an hj and he kind of fingered me over my shorts and for a few seconds under them. and we were dry humping but i had my shorts on which were pretty thick. i normally have very irregular periods which is rather annoying. but it could have been around the time of ovulation, i really have no idea. i am only eighteen and i AM a virgin because i don't believe in pre-marital sex. i am not on any kind of birth control but am going to be soon. i have been crying everyday since me and this guy hooked up because i have been reading online that you can get pregnant from pre-cumm on his fingers and they touch you. i am so worried i don't know what to do. i told my mom and she thinks i'm being irrational and said there is no way i could be pregnant (she is a nurse) but for some reason i have this feeling that i could be. could anyone please give me their thoughts? thank you :)
So true Mumita! I didn't even think about tampons lol. Again .... STUPID is the word to describe that comment!
Just keep your self safe and always remember a guy will tell you what he thinks you want to hear just so he can get in your pants. Men are pigs... especially teenage boys! Being a teen mom is not some thing you want to do. Just don't give mixed signals either. God Bless Hun, Anita
Just keep your self safe and always remember a guy will tell you what he thinks you want to hear just so he can get in your pants. Men are pigs... especially teenage boys! Being a teen mom is not some thing you want to do. Just don't give mixed signals either. God Bless Hun, Anita
Gosh that post was soo ignorant. That would mean that using tampons takes your virginity, that is absolutely ridiculous.
You are not pregnant please be sure of that. Now, I have to agree with Anita on one thing, fooling around feels absolutely amazing and when you are fooling around things keep getting more and more and more intense until you surrender to your absolute desires. I don't believe in the religious aspect of keeping your virginity until marriage and the word being PURE has never entered my bloodstream.
But I had the same idea as you, many goals, many ambitions and getting pregnant at 18 would have been catastrophic in my life so as 'careful' as I was, I started fooling around with my bf at the time and IT FELT SOOOO GOOD that it kept getting more hot and heavy and intense. So, one day I was at his house and his sister was downstairs and we started making out in his bedroom and one thing led to another and we ended havign sex without a condom because at the time I couldn't even remember to be careful. I didn't get pregnant That was my first time.
My advise to you is, take it slower or take it however you want but BE CAREFUL and don't trust a guy, always have your own condoms and make him wear it. And don't hessitate to get advise on birth control methods or to talk to your mom, even as embarrasing as it may be, she can help you. And of course talk to us.
You are not pregnant please be sure of that. Now, I have to agree with Anita on one thing, fooling around feels absolutely amazing and when you are fooling around things keep getting more and more and more intense until you surrender to your absolute desires. I don't believe in the religious aspect of keeping your virginity until marriage and the word being PURE has never entered my bloodstream.
But I had the same idea as you, many goals, many ambitions and getting pregnant at 18 would have been catastrophic in my life so as 'careful' as I was, I started fooling around with my bf at the time and IT FELT SOOOO GOOD that it kept getting more hot and heavy and intense. So, one day I was at his house and his sister was downstairs and we started making out in his bedroom and one thing led to another and we ended havign sex without a condom because at the time I couldn't even remember to be careful. I didn't get pregnant That was my first time.
My advise to you is, take it slower or take it however you want but BE CAREFUL and don't trust a guy, always have your own condoms and make him wear it. And don't hessitate to get advise on birth control methods or to talk to your mom, even as embarrasing as it may be, she can help you. And of course talk to us.
hahah that made me laugh. i'm glad i posted on this site because you guys have been really helpful and understanding, so once again, thanks! :)
Hunny you don't have to defend yourself. I don't know what kind of rock the above person lives under but that is some thing teens do. I don't think its right and it leads to other things .... but its true. When I was a teen my mom didn't believe me when I said I was a virgin because my bf and I fooled around. I didn't do anything to him but he did to me. So she took me to a dr and the dr told her the same thing I did. If what that person is saying was true then you would not be a virgin if you masturbate. ( Every one explores them self's as a teen.) And thats just stupid. People don't be so rude. If you don't have nothing nice to say then KEEP IT TO YOUR SELF! God Bless, Anita
From dictionary . com to clear up any vocabulary...
vir⋅gin
Spelled Pronunciation [vur-jin]
–noun
1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse
sexual intercourse
–noun
genital contact, esp. the insertion of the penis into the vagina followed by orgasm; coitus; copulation.
Origin:
1790–1800.
vir⋅gin
Spelled Pronunciation [vur-jin]
–noun
1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse
sexual intercourse
–noun
genital contact, esp. the insertion of the penis into the vagina followed by orgasm; coitus; copulation.
Origin:
1790–1800.
when you get fingered you are still a virgin. sex is a penis and a vagina. i don't understand what other definition you have? maybe i am not PURE but i am a virgin. 100 percent. and yes thats what teens do that are sexually active if they aren't having sex. if your daughter says she is a virgin believe her. i would tell me my mom if i wasn't. theres no point in lying when you can take her to the obgyn and check to see if she is one. but again i'm a virgin haha i don't know why i have to defend this?
I wanna know was you there when they had their encounter? Her mother is a nurse and told her the same thing... Also My daughter is the same age and confides in me a virgin and has never touch a mans penis in any way shape or form...So that is not what teenagers do...... Please! My question to you is was you there how do you know there was no penetrations cause when you are fingered you are no longer a VIRGIN
OK, I really cant get over that above post. Virgins can give hand jobs, thats what teens do. There was no penetration from a penis so she is a virgin.
Don't listen to the above poster you ARE a virgin. You have nothing to worry about, there is no way you are pregnant.
i always have sore breasts sometime before i get my period i'm just not sure when exactly. but i am a virgin no matter what you think haha sorry but having sex is having sex. theres not a substitution. i have my hymen and my obgyn doctor has proven it. i'm not trying to sound ignorant either its just what i believe. but thankss.
I used to get breast tenderness about a week prior to menstruation each and every month..I mean very sore breasts. Quite common.
I too believe that you have nothing to worry about.
I too believe that you have nothing to worry about.
Then you'll want to take a pregnancy test on the 10th just to make sure! All it takes is one sperm to penetrate that egg and make a baby. Most women do start to get premenstrual symptoms about a week before their period. Keep us posted on what happens! You can message me privately anytime.
aww you guys are all so nice and helpful. i was scared that posting this most people would automatically assume i'm this irresponsible eighteen year old, when really i'm not. what i did isn't the smartest and has scared me enough to realize i can't risk my future just like that. i have a lot of goals and am planning on attending a pharmacy school to become a pharmacist this year because i am graduatting from highschool. being pregnant is sooo far out of my goals right now anyways. thank you guys so much for easing my mind some. although i am still extremely worried because thats just how i am haha i will keep you all posted. any other advice would be great. if i was to have a normal 28 day cycle i should be getting my period on the 10th of this month. my breasts started to hurt today? is that normal?
I want to commend you for not believing in pre-marital sex. Be strong and dump this guy. If he won't "wait" for you he's not worth it and he's only after what you can give him. Sorry to be preachy. But this type of stuff can and will lead to sex and I hate seeing people so scared. I know because that is how I got pregnant with my daughter at 19. I was a strong Christian who didn't believe in premarital sex but... things happen and people end up doing things they don't think they'd do! I was marrying the man anyway so we did get married (our honeymoon was awful because I was sick when it should've been special) and our daughter will be 4 this summer.
All of that to say- you're probably not pregnant. I just wanted to share my testimony. I hope you stick around the forums and let us help you figure out your cycles, etc. so that when you do get married and want children we'll be there every step of the way!
Good luck!
All of that to say- you're probably not pregnant. I just wanted to share my testimony. I hope you stick around the forums and let us help you figure out your cycles, etc. so that when you do get married and want children we'll be there every step of the way!
Good luck!
There is NO WAY that your pregnant. I'm not sure if your saving your self until marriage due to you faith/religion. But... if you are.... and you christian..... the bible says to remain "pure" until marriage. That mean no sexual contact at all. You don't want to get a rep as a tease or get into a situation that goes further than you want. If your doing all of that it would be understandable for a guy to think that it will lead to sex. If you are going to be sexually active then you need to be educated. I'm not trying to be a prude but I think its awesome that you are saving your self for marriage... that is unheard of these days. God Bless, Anita
I would put money on the fact that you are not pregnant.
For piece of mind, you can take a pregnancy test 2 weeks after this event (10 days if you use a high-quality test and first morning urine) to confirm this - with irregular cycles (and stress) a HPT might be the best way to determine this since you might not menstruate by then.
For piece of mind, you can take a pregnancy test 2 weeks after this event (10 days if you use a high-quality test and first morning urine) to confirm this - with irregular cycles (and stress) a HPT might be the best way to determine this since you might not menstruate by then.
i agree. i never do things with a guy. i don't know why i did in the first place. but what if he touch himself.. i really don't know.
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