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no baby. I give up.

Yeah I guess just the adrenaline release caused the spike in contracrions I had. 45min later they quit being as Intense. This is so frustrating and emotionally draining. My body apparently doesnt know how to have a baby and I quit trying. Just have to deal with the fact my body is stupid and I will wind up being induced which is the absolute worst thing for me. The stress is causing terrible chest pain, shes only moved 3x since yesterday,   im so exhausted. I hurt and ache all the time but my contractions wont get closer so im just stuck. And yeah preach about walking or yoga balls or pineapple or epo or what ever you want its all coincidence. Nothing works at all unless your body is ready. Its just wasting your money.
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7442316 tn?1399778535
Your baby will come when she is ready. Don't worry :) contractions can come and go for days. Your not late yet. If the baby is fine and you really don't want to be induced then just wait a few more weeks :) you can go to 42 and if it's your first,  they usually come around 40 weeks I was told
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39+5. Ive had contractions since 35+4 and theyve taken forever to get intense or close together. I think im over stressed bc so many people want me to have her on her gpas bday (one day before my edd) that if I dont I feel like ill be letting so many people down.
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How far along are you?!
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How far along are you?!
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Your body knows what to do. Just relax and let it do its thing. If you do have to have medical intervention for some reason try to be positive about it. Its nothing to be ashamed of. As long as your baby arrives safely and healthy that's what really matters. Now stop stressing. You got this momma!
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Ahh, I'm sorry :(...  But Lol @ the part where you said your body was just stupid.. I don't  why I found that funny but I did.
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Someone told me they stressed like I am and all it took was a long hot bubble bath and pampering themselves for a night the next day they went into labor bc they had fully calmed down. Guess it wont hurt to try and at the very least spoil myself one last time. Thanks mommas
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6628393 tn?1398789276
I know when i would get stressed or worked up towards the end of pregnancy my daughter would move less until i would calm down and fully relax.
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Yes if she hasnt moved but 3xi would definitely go in n get monitored u should still feel her move 10x in 2 hours not necessarily kicks but rolling around etc n don't stress yourself your baby girl will make her appearance remember your due date is just an estimate good luck mommas
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7677085 tn?1395374075
Oh good luck mama I'm sorry things are frustrating for you right now!
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7757724 tn?1396279586
She's only kicked three times yesterday? That isn't normal. I would go in for a ultrasound. Near the end of the pregnancy the placenta starts to detoriate.  So if you don't feel her move much today you should call OB. And dont get so frustrated your body is just practicing for the real thing!
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