After Delivery...Uhh, Relations lol??

[dnikki0928]

Okay ladies, I have a personal question!! I had our daughter on 2-2-10...I know you aren't supposed to do the deed until after your bleeding stops. I'm still bleeding some, some days more than others so I know that's out. But...can you do the other things to I guess "get there?" Obviously no penetration of anything, but I was wondering if it's bad for you to "O"...Not sure why it would be, but I just want some opinions lol! Thanks ladies!

[rebekah385]

I think Oing would be fine without the actual intercourse, i don't see how it would really hurt unless it made you tighten up wrong, go by feel, if it feels ok it probably is!

[dnikki0928]

*BUMP to see if anyone else has opinions...*

[dnikki0928]

Well b/c I'm still bleeding some, I didn't plan on having actual intercourse...I just thought it would be nice if dh and I could still be intimate in another way...I guess all we can do is try lol!

[kupi]

if everything is comfortable I would say go for it -u might find that when you get close to "O" that is might become painful - I had a c - section and my husband and I still had a hard time having sex afterwards (I had gotten fully dialated and pushed for two hours before the c-section) It was a good 10 weeks before we could have fun having sex - very painful for me when he was penetrating even after 6 weeks