questions please help ladies :)

[needzadvice]

hey seems this is always where i turn to lately when i need advice since getting into my doctor takes forever... so i went to apointment with my doctor and she reviewed my ultrasound report with me besides no heartbeat at 6 weeks everything was good she said good yolk sack and the fetus measured 6 weeks 2 days and looked good she did say there was a subchronic something in there which explained the bleeding i cant exactly remember what she said as she has a very strong accent and then she sent me for my blood work and urine test i did those on saturday at the hospital but im very confused i thought i was miscarrying but when i bleed it will come bright red very dark and slowly taper off to brown after a day and then stay brown with very very very small clots and is almost gone then all of a sudden it comes back bright red again i had this before at 4 weeks and 6 weeks right before my ultrasound if i am still pregnant id be 7 weeks 5 days and its happening again bleeding but slowly getting lighter im very confused i have a little bit of cramping but nothing truly hurting me and i have not passed any tissue at all yet from the fetus just the small clots and blood... im looking for anyone who has had a miscarriage or this subchronic thing to kinda help me out here is this how your miscarriage went or whats going on im so confused??

[needzadvice]

Id love to talk to my doctor about it but she still hasnt called me backbit probably won't hear from her she has to many patients and to little time as for going to the hospital I tried but my bf has to go to work and I have m 3 and 2 year old and waiting 5 hours to get into our er here probably won't end well with my screaming children all my cramps r hone and bleeding is just light pink now still have no idea :s

[a005]

He should have waited (repeated u/s )before recommending D&C.They are really mean ppl.its good u r taking second opinion and going for blood test.But its been almost 10 days since ur last u/s,u could have insisted ur Doc for another u/s .I hope you get good news in ur blood test.

M too RH negative (B negative) .Rhogam shots are given to u (when you bleed heavy otherwise at week 28 and at the time of delivery)if ur parter is RH positive and u rh negative ur body can develop antibodies.Though there is no risk in first pregnancy but it is given sothat u dont face antibody problems in next. u need to talk abt this to ur Doc.

[needzadvice]

It was a couple days after my u/s the first one where I measured 6 weeks 2 days I had a very rude very old doctor from the er in beaverlodge if u read my other posts he told me my baby was dead no heartbeat that's all he said after I called him back he told me he was referring me another d&c doctor I asked him about a second opinion he got defensive and said well what u don't believe me and I said no not at all just want a second opinion and he hung up on me then saw my actual doctor and was sent for bloodwork that's it when I called healthlink about last night she was asking me my bp and about rhogam cuz I'm AB- but I have never had my bp taken once or talked to at all about that shot ?? My doctor didn't seem hopeful when she sent me for the bloodwork and I was in and out in minutes after waiting in the packed waiting room for over an hour past my apt

[a005]

when they told you baby is dead and d&c required?Was it after ur 6 week scan?Did they repeat scan one week later or not?

[needzadvice]

Becuz. I have been told many Times my baby is dead and I need a d&c then my actual doctor sent me for blood test and still hasn't called me about the results when in her office she said I'm sending u for bloodwork and if I need to make another apt with u I will call if not dr delacruz (our d&c doctor ) will call u to book an apt she's had my results since yesterday and I've got no call and the other doctor dr d's office has no referral for me I called them and I'm just waiting to hear back from my doctor which I probably won't so now I'm thinking my bloodwork was not good and I'm just waiting for that referral as I have heard no different

[a005]

Its good bleeding is less now.They keep a close watch till hematoma goes away.Since your doc is not available can you get ur u/s done from some other place ?I dont understand why did you talk abt d&C?Heartbeat comes normally around 6-7 weeks and u were only 6 weeks when you did ur last u/s.

keep us posted.