quick question...

[adigllrdo]

Hi  :o) im new here so any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks:o) i know everyone's pregnancy is different and not all women have the same symptoms, but i dont know what to do or who to talk to since my family lives 50 miles away and she is working most of the time so i never catch her when i visit. According to my lmp i should be 10 weeks today. My last period was oct. 11 and i did not get a period in nov. onlu mild cramping and a lot more discharge then usual. In december i was supposed to start my period on the 18 but instead i got sick with cold/flu like symtpoms. I have already taken 4 test and all have been negative. When i talked to my lil sis she told me to go to her doc but it is also 50 miles away(she lives with my parents and her fam) and i do not know of any clinics near where i live and the closest one i could find was also about 27 miles away. But there is a hospital two streets down. So on to my question cause now im just rambling sorry. Should i go to the hospital near my house or should i wait to take another test maybe i tested too early or  go to my sister's ob/gyn? Sorry to ramble on but i woukd really appreciate any advice. Thanks :o)

[adigllrdo]

Thank you for your advice. I feel a little more at ease as to which road to go. Thank you :o)

[beauty12]

you can wait until you pass extra 15days just to save yourself from disappointment.. Also if you have been trying for 3yrs i would recommend you seeing a specialist for fertility guidance.. i waited 3yrs as well and when i got to see doctor found out i had PCOS.. my cycles were pretty but they could go between 33-40 days... i had to get fertility treatment for two yrs... :)

[adigllrdo]

*being

[adigllrdo]

They were normal before i got married. After a yearor so of neing married they started being irregular. I would get it on the day it was supposed to come and the next month would be 3 days late and in between then and now it would be a wk late 15 days was the most ive gone with it being late just recently it started getting back to normal until now. And congratulations on your pregnancy:o)

[beauty12]

are your cycles normal? if they are not or you are not sure than i would say wait few more days and perform another test.. i can understand your frustration i myself had to 4yrs to become pregnant but i had miscarriage before this pregnancy...

[adigllrdo]

Thank you  for your advice my husband and i have been ttc for almost 3 yrs so we didnt know what to do and dont want to get our hopes up and be dissappointed

[beauty12]

I am sorry you are going through is.. after getting negative urine test usually doctor has to perform blood test to get positive pregnancy.. No matter how much i would like to tell you wait few more days and perform a test but i would recommend you to see your nearest hospital as they will be able to give you proper insight... Bear in mind they will perform urine test before and sometimes after getting negative test they tend to let you go with out performing further investigation and tell you to wait few more weeks and if cycles does not start they ll call you back for further investigation.. so if your cycles are regular and you are indeed trying for baby than dont get out of hospital until you get proper answer as if you are pregnant you ll need antenatal care etc...