Help me

[Soldiersgirl92]

So I got the depo shot. I had symptoms. Took two tears that read positive. My boyfriend is deployed & has said if I become pregnant to kill it. It's against my beliefs. What do I do? Also since we aren't married I know my mom won't approve & may kick me out. Idk what to do. Please help. 20 years old

[Optimysticmama]

Being a mom, it is hard to take im sure. I got pregnant at 20. I seriously thought my mom was going to kill me. & i believe she really wanted to until i brought her to my first appt & first ultrasound. It will be hard especially at first but, it is so worth it.
As for the boyfriend saying if it happened "kill it", i think it may be time for a different man... Or maybe to instill some of ur beliefs about how u dont believe in abortion upon him. Good luck hun. & if i were u, id talk to ur mom right away. Tell her ur scared & that u r gonna need someone to help u thru this. GL

[ChloeAiden]

There is always people who will support you there's always this app/forum all the woman on here are extremely supportive and heaps of us are doing this all alone so no matter your situation ppl are here to help :)

[Soldiersgirl92]

Thank you!

[rosey3216]

If you want to keep it, keep it. You need to do what will make you happy as it is a life changing decision. Hopefully they will come around. I really hope it all works out for you hun.

[Soldiersgirl92]

I want the baby so bad! I'm against abortion. I'm just scared I'll have nobody left. He won't approve. Neither will my mom :( I'm keeping it. Final decision. Just so scared

[Shirano]

You do not have to do anything you do not want to do. Your mom may not approve but what is done is done and she will come around most likely.

[Optimysticmama]

First off, u didnt say what u want. ur bf doesnt want a baby but do u? Id sit down with mom either wAy. Cuz if she doesnt know asap, she may get real upset. I kno my mom did. the day i was gonna tell her, she freaked on me aboit how brian (my hubby) & i dont need anymore kids right now & blah blah. She thinks at least one of us needs to  join military & be in school. But, she was excited & extremely helpful afteer i told her

[mummytwobee]

Dont let other people force you into something you dont believe in, its a permanent choice and you may regret it your entire life. You have to go with what you feel is right. Goodluck hun