i messed up

[kimisup]

Pretty sure my mom found my pregnancy stuff. She is being nasty to me and she went digging through my room. So I'm freaking out and I'm scared I don't want her to know she isn't stable. I'm in college and I'm 18 its not like I'm a Child I'm just scared

[mckee513]

Kimi I was 18 when I found out and my mom was unstable as well. She started drinking and taking pain meds because of her depression. My brothers and I had her admitted against her will. It was 72 hours when she could decide wether she wanted to go or stay. She stayed after finally sobering up it was like a smack in the face what was happening to her. She told me to hit my knees and pray for a miscarriage. I hear those words daily. My son is 11 now and I have a 6 yr old boy as well. I'm sure she regrets what she said now tht she's healthy. She spoils my boys rotten

[Srahier]

A baby might make her happier. If she is scuicidal I would get her help. Baby doesn't need to be around that

[kimisup]

My mom has been trying to commit suicide and has been popping pills that's not stable enough to tell

[mrsnelson2010]

With my first i told my mom at 13 weeks...since we were going to visit anyways. With this one i told her at 6 weeks shortly after finding out, and she got mad at me and said "i hope this is your last one u need to get ur tubes tied" so i told her they didnt know if the pregnancy was going to stick since i had been spotting and i ended up telling her it stuck around 13 weeks as well. She is probably just upset u didnt tell her sooner hun

[1sttimmommy]

Why don't you tell her already hun? Its just going to get more and more harder. And hun in her eyes your still a child, she's ur mom. im 20 and married and i didn't tell my mom until after ny first trimester but i only did that in case i miscarried. wanted to make sure baby was good and healthy before we told family. my mom took it bad she got sad that i didn't tell her sooner and shell probably never her it go that i did that.

[carloswife]

Try to keep calm stress is no good for the baby.Let things fan out a bit when shes calm sit with her face to face and tell her.When i got prego with my first i was afraid my mom would know shes a bit on the steep end to but when i finally talk to her she wasnt upset i was prego she was mad i didnt tell her sooner