I know the feeling . I was always with my daughter. But when I worked my babys dads mom ALWAYS did shi* behind my back like took her to the zoo when I was just talking bout im talking her the next day im off. But no the day her husband is off HAS to be the day MY daughter goes. She did ALL her first time things with her. Decorating her room building her new crib I bought her. Like everything. ! Still to this day she does that !!! But she alwayd knew who mommy was ALWAYS . I dont work anymore so its my time to do these things with her. Tell her now before its too late. Cause I wish I never had a job but mh daughter needed diapers and clothes !
Yeah...tell her the baby needs you and you only more then anyone else in the world right now. And you want him to know you better then anyone. There is no way she can argue with this. You should even tell her to go home for a while...unless you live together. Good luck and congrats! Im 23+3 and im so anxious to meet my little boy.
Ask her nicely to back off a little bit, you need time to bond with your baby