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scared to test this weekend

Hi Girls,

I need to speak to someone before i go completely crazy. period due on sunday suddenly have insomnia & my stomach is bloated all signs that i had last time. prob is i had a miscarriage at 8wks & i am too scared to do a test incase its possitive but goes wrong again, is it better not to know? hubby doesn't really understand how i feel.
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Hi

I had a miscarriage in November last year and I was about 6 weeks pregnant at the time.  We concieved again at the end of the December and I am now coming up to 19 weeks pregnant.  So dont worry .... I know how you feel.  I think worrying about the pregnancies prepares us for worrying for the rest of our lives about them.  Try not to worry.  Everything was ok with me so far, so it can be ok for you too!
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1123420 tn?1350561158
No knowing is not better... you said your scared cause u suffered a miscarriage, but that should give you more reason and motivation to know as soon as possible so you can take full care of that baby while its developing.. that baby needs you to know that he/she is in there, so it can have you looking after it.  I found out at 4 weeks i was prego, and yea knowing early did make this a long long pregnancy, but im glad ive known so i can do everything to take care of him.. take a test it willb e okay. if u need to talk i am here
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1255151 tn?1413891826
I cant blame you for feeling nervous about testing. I will be there right along with you in about 2 weeks. I started my AF on Sunday (04/11/2010) but I have short cycles, about 25 days so hopefully will ovualte this week. We found out we had a missed miscarriage on 03/09/2010 so we definitely want to try again right away but find it to be completely terrifying at the same time. I guess you have to find out no matter what right? Are you taking prenatal vitamins already? I kept on mine after we lost the baby so my body will be ready to conceive again. Good luck to you =)
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1222635 tn?1366396286
you need to know if you are pregnant you need to be on prenatals and visit a doctor..i know your scared but its best that you take a test when your late.
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