sex, breasts & breastfeeding

[BreymanCoen]

Ok so this is probably TMI but I am a lil over 34 wks & I get soooo turned when my fiance ***** on my breasts during sex!! I know they say to avoid nipple stimulation as it could start labor but I can't help it. My question is I plan on breastfeeding this baby & with my fiance sucking on them will the colostrum be there when the baby is born or will it be milk?  Does your body know when your still pregnant? This is my 2nd & I breastfed my first but never had the sexual urges with my breasts while pregnant.

[mrssandefur]

He would play with them but I don't blame my husband I wouldn't want him to lol it'd be awkward for me.

[KTowne]

My colostrum was always clear, and my milk was more yellowish, off white than white!

[FreshLove]

My colostrum was yellowish in color as well so that's normal. The stuff I leaked starting in 3rd trimester was more clear but by the very end the colostrum was yellowish and I could definitely tell when my milk came in because it was white.

[Factorymomma]

That's colostrum ;-)  it can be clear, to a whitish color.  Your body doesn't actually produce milk until after the birth of your baby.

[KTowne]

Hmm I'm not sure, maybe you just have a good milk supply? Haha, Have you asked your doctor?

[mz_sapphire]

No it wasn't clear it was yellowish white

[KTowne]

Are you sure it's not just colostrum? I leaked that, quite a bit, before I had DS, about a week before I had him, I actually had to wear pads.

[mz_sapphire]

Ok so is it weird that someone produces milk b4 baby is born. With my last pregnancy i produced milk b4 i had my son. When i had my son the nurse check to c if i could breast feed and said o u already got milk coming out and thats all.

[BreymanCoen]

Thanks ladies!! Lol I don't get 2-3 hours stimulation but somedays that would be like heaven! :-) KTowne thanks for reassuring me that I am not a huge weirdo! Mrssandefur my fiance is a trooper,  insists that it's natural & if it turns me on he'll do it! Lol

[BreymanCoen]

Thanks ladies!! Lol I don't get 2-3 hours stimulation but somedays that would be like heaven! :-) KTowne thanks for reassuring me that I am not a huge weirdo! Mrssandefur my fiance is a trooper,  insists that it's natural & if it turns me on he'll do it! Lol

[VaniDavila]

lol... that's funny!!!

It shouldn't start labor... I have read that you need to stimulate the nipples for about 2-3 hours for it to start labor and if you're getting that much stimulation then good for you :) Your milk won't come in until a couple of days after birth and your body will know if you are pregnant or not. When you deliver, your body changes hormones which cause the milk to come in so you will still have colostrum when you deliver.

[mrssandefur]

Your body will know you're still pregnant and generally wont produce milk until after baby is born. Like 9.5 times outta 10 a woman's body wont produce actual milk until after giving birth. My husband still does that to me and said he will stop the first time he tastes anything Haha.

[KTowne]

I'm the same way, so it's not weird, haha! You won't go into labor unless your body is ready to go into labor, and at this stage, it's unlikely that will set you into labor. As for the leakage, my nipples started leaking a couple of weeks before DS was born. The first day/couple of days it will be only colostrum until your milk comes in.