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sexual self esteem.

So before I got pregnant I was about 100 lbs, an even then had low self esteem issues (previous abusive relationship) I met my boyfriend an he made all of the issues an hurt go away, hes incredible an still is. But I cant help but feel unattractive to him when being intimate, he will send me texts while hes on break at wprk telling me im beautiful etc an it helps a little but idk.. any advice on how to get my confidence back back in the bedroom?? Ive tried my sexy lingerie,  telling myself im beautiful etc an its just like nopee. :/
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My favorite thing about my tummy is that i cant look fat. I look pregnant as f*** and its round, not fatty.
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Im 36 weeks and i dont even wear a bra anymore when im at home cuz i bought pregnant lady bras but even those hurt! Lol at least u know that ur bfs gotta be into it. And ur gonna get a LOT bigger! Dont let it bother u, ur bf sounds like a wonderful guy and if hes anything like my bf he will loooove ur big tummy :)
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Oh my bf is a chest man, he wont leave them alone.. lol
the breast size changes are so annoying for me, just bought a size up an now these ones dont cover em.  An im only 18weeks and 6 days. ..
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I feel the same way sometimes. Idk if there is really anything else u can do. Just remember u arent fat u r making a new life inside of u and THAT is beautiful. And everything will go back to normal eventually. And maybe ur boobs will get bigger lol i know my bf loves that.
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