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Bad mothers-venting
So I went with my husband to my father in laws house for Father's Day and one of my sister on laws was there. She has always been an awful mother and I've lost all respect her a long time ago. She dropped her 2 kids off at my fil when they were about 2&3 years old (about 3years ago) and essentially forgot about them. Never goes over there, never sees them or spends any time with them. The few times over the years that I've been over there and she does come by she YELLS at the kids! They come up to her to say hi and she tells them to "get out of her face" or if she hears them talking she tells them "to shut up before she punches them in the throat" it's disgusting...my father in law and his wife (who raise these kids) don't say S H I T to her about the way she treats them. My husband who is her brother doesn't say anything to her either, they ignore it and it makes me sick to my stomach. To top it all off she is 6months pregnant again by a 3rd guy who is the cousin of her 1st baby's father. What the H E L L??? It just boggles my mind how some one can be such a horrible person and mother. Makes me sick and I have zero respect for people like this!!!!! Sorry, just had to vent...
I agree^^ I would say something to her but her entire family sits there and witnesses this and ignores it! I don't feel like its my place, although if she did start getting physical with the kids in front of me or my child I WOULD say something to her. I couldn't keep my mouth shut. Now, if it where MY sister she would be getting cussed out every time I saw her. I feel sorry for her kids and I'm wondering how long it'll be before she drops the one she's expecting off and forgets about him too. When I heard she was expecting I told my father in law and his wife "congratulations, I heard you guys are expecting!" I wasn't going to say congrats to HER, it's not like she's a mother anyway...
I don't lash out violently. How would I be setting an example if I'm flipping out at 33 weeks pregnant. People get what's coming to them when they least expect it. The boy has a whole family that can step up in his defense. Is it right ? Absolutely not but assaulting her would put me in jail and my son motherless and my dogs homeless. I worry about me and mine. It's unfortunate but karma is a *****. Now if someone spoke my child that way (which is less likely to happen because I don't surround myself with scum) it would be a whole different story.
Honestly, pregnant or not, I'd slug her. And @Gordonbaby; idk how you don't attack your neighbor. I personally could not just sit by while hearing this or seeing it. I'd smash that ladies face into her lawn and tell her y"ou need to cut the sh!t, or i will personally see to it that your child gets taken away from a monster like you"
@Roopstetter...Wow!! I have an ex friend (whom at one point was my best for 12 years) who had a baby in December and smoked pot so much that when they tested her and the baby they called child services because the babys THC levels were so high. She stopped smoking for three months while they investigated her and dropped random urine tests. After her three months they fell back a bit but just recently popped up on her at her home where she was caught in the act of smoking with her babys father (who does absolutely nothing for her.and the baby and keeps this baby a.secret because he has two other young children with his live in girlfriend) while the baby was in the same room and the apartment was apparently filthy. I guess now she has court and may lose her daughter : /
I have a friend who I grew up with and she is a bad mother too. She's pregnant with her second and gets drunk daily and smokes a pack a day. Her bf does EVERYTHING pays the bills, works cooks cleans and takes care of her son. Her son is constantly trying to get her attention and she basically says leave me alone and go watch cartoons. She used to live with me and her son would call me momma BC his mother way always off getting drunk and sleeping around or she would leave him alone and go spend the night at the downstairs neighbors. One morning he went looking for her BC she never came home. She ended up sleeping with the guy across the apartment complex. I was so scared. I found him wandering around the court yard. Luckily my husband's dog woke me up by loudly barking or I shudder to think what would have happened
@ GordonBaby- yes! Horrible mothers just make me want to KILL! (I'm sorry God, but it's the truth) it gives me knots in my stomach and I can feel the heat rising in my face. I'm so protective over my child (and child to be) if anyone ever stepped out of line with them I'd probably spend the rest of my life talking to them from behind a glass! I'm praying it never goes that far but people out here nowadays are CRAZY. And others should NEVER be allowed to reproduce!
LOL yeah, ever since she was like 12! I think she's like 25 or 26 now but she was outta control back then, hubby and I have been together on and off for 15years now so I knew her as a kid. Crazy b#&ch!
That's horrible. I have a neighbor who screams and cusses at her 2yr old. Four doors down and I can hear her flipping out on him. INFACT just got done doing fireworks with my 6yr old neighbor and she was in her yard telling her son to shut the F up because he was laughing at the six year old running in the yard being silly. it really burns my biscuits....
Well maybe after babies are born you can beat her a s s . Sounds like she needs it in a bad way
I just can't stand being there if she shows up I'm ready to leave. I just can't watch her with those kids it sickens me. My husband knows how I feel I feel so sorry for those kids and to hear the stories of her almost beating the kids that my other sister in law tells (although she's not a much better mother either but for different reasons) she tries to be nice and smile at me but I can't....I don't talk to her, I can't even look at her. I'm pretty sure she knows I can't stand her
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