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so upset

Father of my baby broke up with me a few weeks ago im nearly 11 weeks pregnant. I had a suspected miscarriage in march an extremely heavy bleed and this time got pregnant  in june he said I got pregnant on purpose how could I get pregnant so fast and that he will never ever trust me again and we have no future and to just get along with the pregnancy. I was on the pilland I did take it everyday. Im so upset he is actually blaming me for the pregnancy and doesn't trust me and he doesn't want to help me get through this :( just feel so alone and hurt
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After you have a miscarriage you can become extremely fertile. I had one in October of last year and for pregnant about 2 months later. Don't let him blame you for it. It takes 2 to make a child. I went through the same thing with my baby dad. We broke up the day after valentines day. He told me he didn't think the baby was his and wants a DNA test. I agreed and told him once it came out positive that he would have to step up and help. You will be okay though. Just worry about you and your baby for now. When the time is right and if he really care he will come around
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Thank you ♡♡♡
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Congratulations on your pregnancy being pregnant and becoming a mum is a wonderful thing.  Some men can be selfish at times he may come round you never know and if he doesn't don't worry you will be fine and im sure you will have lots of family support if he cares enough about you he will come round.  But most importantly dont stress or worry yourself you need to keep healthy for you and your little one i know its hard but im sure you will have lots of support and there will be many girls on here that you can always talk to
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