Please help, is there any hope for me?

[lou1113]

After bleeding yesterday i had a scan only to find an empty sac, i should be 12 weeks.. My heart is broken.. I just want to know did this happen anyone and their baby ended up growing? The bleeding stopped and there wasnt enough to fill a pad in the first place, im not in any pain and i still have all my symptoms.. Any opinions would help.. I know theres not much hope for me but im praying the scan tomorrow will show a baby.. Is there any chance?

[amariec93]

I went through something similar and unfortunately i had lost the baby. But dont give up hope. Its only been 10 weeks since i lost the baby and im already 7 weeks pregnant again.

[GordonBaby]

I went natural

[lou1113]

Oh ok, thanks. They told me last night my cervix was closed and i wasnt bleeding from my womb.. Its all so confusing. Its really heavy now so i think this is it. Cramps are getting worse too. Thanks for reply.x

[Ashdub07]

When I miscarried i had to have a D&C because my uterus would not shed and it gave me PID. I guess it will depend on your dr recommendation

[lou1113]

Thank you girls, i will try again but not sure when, just doesnt feel real .. Would you recommend letting it happen naturally or tske the D&C? I feel stupid i dont know about these things i just feel really confused and dont know what to do.. Really appriciate replys, your all so nice on here i just wish i could stay, i wish i still had my baby and i was more worried about naming it or morning sickness.. Life ***** at times! :( .. But i guess if you got your little miracles i can too :) . Thanks

[Ashdub07]

I agree with these ladies miracles can happen! I miscarried in 2011 at 12 weeks. And they told me I wouldn't be able to carry anymore. And 5 months later I was pregnant again with #2 and my doc said "miracle baby don't expect it again" and now she is 9 months and I am expecting #3! :) don't be too down on yourself right now you can do it. Good luck sweetie!

[NicoleW09]

Most doctors recommend waiting at least one cycle between, preferably thre, when you have a d&c so that your lining can build back up. If you mc naturally, you don't really have to wait. I mc in sept of 09 and began trying right away, but ended up needing clomid to conceive my daughter six months later.

[GordonBaby]

Hang in there dear....it will happen. Stay as positive a possible : )

[lou1113]

Thank you so much, means alot. Good luck to you too & hopefully ill be back on here soon :) Just hurts now. Thanks x

[AshleyDMcCaig]

For me, I didn't really wait.. lol Doctor said to wait 2 cycles, I was intending on becoming pregnant right away, but it happened. :) I had a fear of another miscarriage until I got past my 14th week of pregnancy and now I feel great! Happy and excited!
You may be the same, it'll be hard until you get past the point where you miscarried, or you may be completely different and feel great from the time you find out. :) Good luck to you and I wish you the best!

[ladyprimetime]

Have you ever seen a specialist to see why my friend had to she and her husband tried for 2 years to have kids she miscarried each time so she seen a specialist and miracles do happen to she gave birth to her son last october

[lou1113]

Thank you for reply girls, im cramping alot now and passing clots so i think it really is over. I just dont know what to do. I want to try but im scared i cant do this again. Its killing me looking at what i bought.. Do you know how long i need to wait? Ill be at the hospital tomorrow but just wondering now.. Its nice to hear happy stories im glad you guys got to have one this time, congrats and good luck with the rest :) .. x

[ladyprimetime]

Had the same thing but my mine i was 18weeks and some how baby had no heart beat at18weeks 14 weeks he did so sometime between thrre something happen i had a d&c and got pregnant in feb had my d&c right before christmas last year  

[GordonBaby]

Im sorry hun, I too had the same thing happen. I was 9 weeks and bled at 10w. Like AshleyDMcCaig experienced, I became pregnant about two months after and Im now 26w5d. I agree that miracles can happen and that you may not have the outcome you want this time, but there is always the next time.

[AshleyDMcCaig]

I'm very sorry to read this... I had something similar happen to me, but I bled at around 14 weeks, but I had miscarried at 12, no pain and just a little bit of blood when I went to the bathroom on the toilet paper. I went to the ER and they told me that I was miscarrying, I ended up having to have a d&c. I didn't have a good outcome at first, but within the next month and a half, I became pregnant again, I am now 21 weeks.
Miracles can happen, but if it doesn't, maybe something was just wrong and your body knew. I hope the best for you!