I use vita liberata it's supposed to be the most natural and safe to use during pregnancy plus it's unscented if you are sensitive. St tropez is safe to use too but the smell makes me nauseous.
I use a light bronzing powder on my face and neck. it gives me a nice glow. And a make up artist taught me this . . . if you use a bit of cream blush--- put it on the bridge of your nose and apples of your cheeks. it gives you a fresh, sunny look. :>) I gave up tanning a few years ago. Once you get used to it, it's not bad. Then I find being outside at the park and what not with my kids, I get a bit of sun on my arms and legs. I use sunscreen now so it is just a little but it is an 'active' tan rather than a I sit in the sun kind of tan. Anyway, try the make up tricks. :>) good luck
I used to use fake bake. I love it.