Thanks this is really help
Bump(sorry keep bumping just want as Many people ad possible to see this)
Yeah my sister listened and had both kids quick and without any pain meds and no tearing but my other sister didn't because it was 'weird' and had 10stiches I just want to help share my moms knowledge
I didn't know about the pulling thing, but I knew massaging the area between your vagina and anus helps prevent tearing.. It makes sense seeing as that's what tears (or even needs to be cut depending on the situation)..
By the way sorry for not answering sooner I had work an I lost my phone for a day . .it was in my room
Yeah what she said ^^ but there's a few ways to do it and the one my mom describe is to have your hubby or bf put there thumb in your vagina an have him massage the part between your vagina and anus then when that gets comfortable then to start to gently tug an stretch that area nit to where its painful but at least so you can stretch it and if you can handle it tug a little harder and and hold it as long as its bearable . Is that a good explanation?
The massage is called a perineal massage you can find info on google and other sites
I'd like to know as well(: lol. I'm an concerned citizen
Massage your vagina ? Lol
I'd like to know also lol
Yeah how do you do the vaginal massages
Can u explain how to perform these vaginal massages? Lol
I sent you a message dear with a couple of questions