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13179663 tn?1428872417

trying for the third!

OK so my nipples have been erect and super sensitive to the touch. They have just recently starting growing as well as my boobs are. The little bumps are spreading more around my nipples. I'm nauseaous everyday, I'm bloated, I just recently started getting bad headaches and I feel light headed at least once a day. Also, my right boob has grown almost twice the size of my left. :/ I have about 4-5 days before my period is due......that's about the only symptom I dont have is a missed period. I'm freaking out because my husband and I were separated for about 5 months and we just got back together a couple weeks ago. I'm afraid that if I'm pregnant, the baby may be another mans. HELP ME!!!
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If you are pregnant you can always get a dna test done to figure out who the dad is.
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13179663 tn?1428872417
My period is due on Friday, but my periods have been so iregular....I'll take a test on Friday and if its still negative then I'm gunna go see my OB. I almost just cried after reading that last comment...my husband is convinced that I'm pregnant. I have a new symptom Btw...my nipples have been itching and so has my belly but it seems like it would be too early for that to happen.. ohmygoodness this is a scary thing!! Thanks so much for all the advice! :)
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What a tricky situation, but I think first you need to know for sure that you are pregnant.
4 - 5 days before your period may be to early to get a positive test result as your hormone level may be to low, so you may infact be pregnant!
Wait until the day of your due period and then try again..
I had fuller looking breasts and erect nipples 4 days before my missed period this was something I have never experienced before so I knew even before taking a test that I was pregnant. So yes this is definitely a symptom!!
I hope you can sort things out in your relationship and wish you the very best if you do get that positive test.
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13179663 tn?1428872417
& before we were married and I was pregnant with our son we split up for a couple months and got another woman pregnant. He is currently paying child support and has nothing to do with his daughter...so the two situations are basically the same. I had to accept the fact that he has a child with another woman. He needs to do the same!! But the other man wants to be fully involved, he's actually a really good friend of mine...I want to be pregnant so bad..but with my husband!
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13179663 tn?1428872417
I'm gunna give my ob a call tomorrow and let the nurse decide if I should come in...which I'm sure she probably will. & I've taken 3 test and they're all negative.
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Agree take a test. You could always go in for a blood pregnancy test to hopefully find out earlier. sounds like pregnancy to me... And i agree, it should be a mutual agreement.
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Definitely take a test to start with and if it's negative then you should definitely go see your doctor to have a breast exam done to rule out anything serious, and they can do a blood test to see if you're pregnant too. Does sound a lot like pregnancy symptoms to me. And just bc he's not the daddy doesn't mean he can't raise it as his own if you decide you want to keep it, bc in my opinion he doesn't have the right to choose that for you, it should be a mutual decision to abort. Good luck!! I hope it all works out for you!!
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Take a test.
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13179663 tn?1428872417
Yeah, the first night I moved back I told him everything. He said if I'm pregnant he wants to get rid of it because if I am, I know who the father is. But with all the symptoms I'm having, what does it sound like. I mean, my nipples are getting really big and itchy and sore. My right breast is way bigger than the other.... What is that?!? That's never happened to me.
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13179663 tn?1428872417
Yeah, the first night I moved back I told him everything. He said if I'm pregnant he wants to get rid of it because if I am, I know who the father is. But with all the symptoms I'm having, what does it sound like. I mean, my nipples are getting really big and itchy and sore. My right breast is way bigger than the other.... What is that?!? That's never happened to me.
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13179663 tn?1428872417
Yeah, the first night I moved back I told him everything. He said if I'm pregnant he wants to get rid of it because if I am, I know who the father is. But with all the symptoms I'm having, what does it sound like. I mean, my nipples are getting really big and itchy and sore. My right breast is way bigger than the other.... What is that?!? That's never happened to me.
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Does your SO know there were other men? If not i would be sure to be open about it. the only way to know who's baby it is is to do a blood test when baby is born. Or, i know its not full proof, but if you know about when you ovulated and when you had sex with each partner that could tell you a lot...
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