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[beach23]

looks like this spotting is not from the pap smear. i just had an ultrasound and the baby no longer has a heartbeat. im devastated. im waiting for my dr. to call me to find out what to do next. do i have to have a d&c at 9 weeks?

[babygirl172007]

I am sorry you are going through the same thing, I started bleeding Thursday morning. Went to the doctor and the baby doesnt have a heartbeat.The doctor said the baby stop developing. I am having a DnC Monday.He said me and my hubby can start trying again in 2 weeks.

[beach23]

thanks so much. missyg477- yes we saw the hb at 6 weeks.

[missyg477]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this.  You might just m/c naturally.  In 2006 I had a blighted ovum.  The dr wanted to do a D&C, but I had just had one done a few months before.  After talking to a friend who is an L&D nurse she told me to aks for Cervadil.  This medication comes in tablet form.  You out the tablets on your cervix before you go to bed and the next day you will have cramping and bleeding.  If you decide to do it this make sure that you also request pain meds like Vicodin.  Good luck, and again I am very sorry for your loss.

Had you been able to the heartbeat before?

[110279hld]

If you are already spotting you may just m/c naturally.  That is where I am now.  It sucks so bad.  I know the pain and shock you are going through.  You will get through it.  I am so sorry!!!!!!  It doesn't seem fair, does it.  I wish I knew the magic words to say to make it better, but there are none.  Just know that we are here for you!!