Aa
Extremely pissed >=(
Ever since i got pregnant i stopped smoking cigarettes becuz dey bother me.now... so all i ask is dat my mother dnt smoke inside becuz it bothers me.plus its unhealthy for my unborn baby... but noooo its a big freakin problem ! but wen my sister was pregnant exactly a year ago wat ever she demanded whe recieved....i wuld smoke around her and get my head chewed off ... idc about me but i want my son to be healthy and i dnt ask anything from anyone ... just not to smoke around me ... is that too.much too ask ? Am i wrong ?
My mother smokes but she always takes it outside. Maybe you can convince her to go outside? :( your baby definitely cannot be around that when born as it can cause SIDS. Wish you the best of luck. I know it's hard and frustrating.
No he doesnt he lives with his mom... she doesnt like he too much... trust i have stressed EVERY option I could... hopefully it gets better soon
How about the father of your child, does he have his own place? Are you close with his parents?
I will try my best to make them hear me once and for all... a lot of times i say nothing cuz i dnt like getting upset and stressing my baby ... but its extremely frustrating ...
Damn well you need to put ur foot down and make them listen and let them know if they can't treat you right they won't even much look at your baby
Yea, it's hard being under someone else's roof.... I live with my mom also, cost to much for me to have my own at the moment.... Go in your room and shut the door.... I also keep my room window open all day to get good air circulation.... I'm 34 weeks and my mom just stopped smoking through the entire house.... She now only smokes in her room....
Yea could you try and see to move out cus think about it while your baby is in your sromick and they can't respect you enough to not smoke inside then what when your baby is here they going to smoke in the house while he is in the house move out
I do the apartment is but so big so da smell travels and they smoke constantly ... its so frustrating.... i literally smells like an ashtray bar here... i go outside but i have to come back home eventually.... and it makes me so upset becuz one day ima have to bring my son here ...
Why don't you leave the room when they smoke? And keep windows open for fresh air, I know you shouldn't have to leave the room and they should respect you and not smoke around you but if there not willing to do that then I guess just leave the room
They purposely blow smoke in my direction sometimes and say oops i forgot yur pregnant.. and im like dude ! wtf ... even if i wasnt pregnant why wuld u.blow smoke my way anyway ? its.like they want my child to be born unhealthy... and idk what to do ... i have to live with them becuz i cant afford ro leave right now ughhhh
But everytime i speak on it im ignored or it becomes an arguement ... i dnt demand antthin i just ask plz dnt smoke around me and to no avail
No you have every right to demand a clean and healthy environment for your child.
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