My fiances aunt is the same way, but I don't wanna remember my wedding with a big giant belly. In my eyes you only get married once so make it one you'll remember :-)
Plus we already have a 4 ur old so it be wonderful with both my kids there.
Aww I would want to wait to. She's just going to have to be patient since it's your guys' wedding and not hers! Maybe tell her you've already started planning it so that you're little man can share the special day with you?
We are already married but never had a ceremony so his family says we can "pretend" lol and by god, I am going to pretend
Weddings are stressful, i would definitely wait til after the baby is born Xx