Should I worry...?

[Xtina85]

I am almost 7 weeks pregnant and just got engaged. However my fiance and I have been fighting a ton lately. We've been under a lot of stress(he lost his job, my hours were cut back and now we're pregnant) I feel like he has no patience or understanding and he thinks I'm a crazy emotional monster lol. It's driving me crazy and making me question my feelings and the whole relationship. Is this my hormones making me crazy again or should I look deeper into this?

[MamaBear0612]

I'm sorry you're going through this. If it gets really bad, you might think of removing yourself from the situation for awhile, going to stay somewhere else for a little while. I'm just thinking all that stress can't be good for the baby. In the meantime, try to surround yourself with family and friends who can make this a happy experience for you.

[DaDiva757]

Ive been doing the same thing my guest pregnancy ended with a miscarriage also.

[Xtina85]

@daduva757 I've been holding back tears all night!:( I've been trying my hardest to manage my stress since my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage I'm trying to do all I can to prevent that but I feel I'm at my wits end!

[Xtina85]

@clysta I've tried talking to him but half the time it ends in an argument. I spent most of the day at my sister in laws just to get away for a bit and came home to work things out only to see he had drank almost a whole bottle of vodka while I was gone

[DaDiva757]

Yes this is my first. All I do is cry every time I think about it.

[Clysta]

Have you tried to talk to him about how you feel?

[proudmommyandwife]

I know exactly what you mean this is my second child I'm almost 29 Weeks, I'm out of work, my husband just lost his job and we've been fighting its hard

[Xtina85]

@clysta thank you for the advice. I guess I just didn't realize how hard this was going to be

[Xtina85]

@dadiva757 it's so hard to feel like your watching your relationship crumble in front of your eyes:( I feel so helpless. Is this your first pregnancy?

[Clysta]

Give it time. Pregnancy, especially an unplanned one, can cause severe stress and tension even in the best relationships. Unfortunately, once the child is born it can happen again - if you're both truely commited to each other and love each other it will work out.

[DaDiva757]

I know exactly how you feel Im going thru the same thing. Im seven weeks also.