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I'm almost 21 weeks and lately i've been having trouble reaching an orgasm. When I first found out I was pregnant it was normal and I could orgasm like nothing. But now its really hard and my fiancé thinks im not turned on. I am but I just can't orgasm. Anybody else have or had this problem when they were pregnant?
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Sometimes i feel like having sex and then my fiance is an jerk so i change my mind hahaha
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I think that it's pretty normal not to be able to reach an orgasm during some point of the pregnancy. I think that it's something to be happy about that you are even wanting to have sex. Some of my friends close sex out almost completely during their pregnancy.
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Sexual urges and the ability to orgasm change throughout pregnancy.  It's a fluctuation of progesterone and other hormones that causes this.  Who's to say that in a few weeks you'll still feel the same, it may be just the opposite.  I happy that you're able to have a sex life during pregnancy!!  
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And I cry as well not only can i not have an orgasm i dont want sex at all. I have another appt on tmrw and Im gonna bring my problem up again I hope he has something verter to say besides " hormones"
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1972798 tn?1355549267
Well my husband doesnt want to have sex with me because he is afraid of poking the baby in the head... LOL I am not having the same thing you are having but its just getting him to have sex is the hard part.... I am 40+5 today and we have done it once in the past 2 months....
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Hi Im 12w and 4 ans Im having the same problem funny thing os I recently had a bby 16 mths ago and this is where my problem started. My doctor says Its due to hormones and things will go back to normal.
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There's no reason I just can't orgasm. But before this point in the pregnancy I have. Its so weird and I feel like crap cuz my fiancé thinks im not turned on by him anymore. :'( Makes me cry.
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i barely am able to now that i am pregnant. I'm 25 weeks. Sometimes i can feel the baby kicking my finace if he is on top. I think that's why. Other times sex is painful for me. Is there any reason behind it with you?
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