Hi
sorry to hear of your loss, I have lost 3 pregnancies, my 3rd was a natural miscarriage at 6 weeks. I will share my story, it was the day after new years day 2003 and me and my dh had gone into town to buy some sale stuff. i went to the loo while out and when i wiped there was pinkish blood on the paper every time i wiped. We went straight to the doctors who said put your feet up and rest, nothing else can be done.
i went home and the bleeding continued to get heavier and i had crampy pains and back ache. There were also small clots too....a day after the bleeding started I went to the loo and as I sat I passed a largish clot and heard it splash into the toilet. I immediately called my dh and then the hospital who said to come in asap. I was checked over at the hopsital and told my cervix was closed and it looked like a complete miscarriage, but if i had any pain on nasty smells down below to come back. I'm pretty sure they scanned me from memory a week later just to make sure there was no remaining tissue. I bled for just under a fortnight after the miscarriage and the pain was better once the clot had been passed.
All you can do is wait and see what the scan shows, I hope it has all passed for you and d&c is not required, i had a d&c after my 2nd pregnancy and it wasn't the nicest.
Best wishes to you
Sorry, as for the back passage pain, I don't know, I don;t recall feeling anything like that afterwards. Maybe mention it when you see someone at the hospital.
Thank you for sharing your story.... i appreciate it, i also have pcos (polycystic ovaries) perhaps its why my ovaries are now aching.... i saved the clot and showed the dr but she didnt comment only said it should never be that big.... you see i never had a positive preg test because my periods are all over the show... last time i tested was may 4th and it was neg.... wished id of known not that i could of changed the outcome
I'm really sorry to hear that, give it time, it does get easier!