Hi Newad,
It's great that you are tuned in to the signs that your body is giving you.
It's hard to say if you are at increased risk for prostate cancer based only on what you described above.
There are other conditions that can cause an enlarged prostate, like benign enlargement of the prostate. So a prostate that "feels big" does not necessarily mean cancer.
The best way to find out if you have prostate cancer is by a PSA test and a digital rectal exam. Even these tests will not tell you for certain, but they will tell your doctor if you need to go any further with testing for cancer (i.e. biopsy), or if you need to start investigating other possible medical causes for your discomfort.
If prostate cancer runs in your family, it is a great idea to start taking charge of your prostate health at your age. It's also important to find a urologist you're comfortable with and that you trust.
BTW there a bunch of helpful resources online if you want to learn more about this:
http://www.mayoclinic.org/prostate-cancer/diagnosis.html
http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/prostate/patient
http://www.uclahealth.org/body.cfm?id=1081&oTopID=47
http://www.nyuprostatecancer.org/screening
http://www.urologyhealth.org/adult/index.cfm?cat=09
Good luck to you and I hope your appointment turns out OK!
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