To: kl009,
I misaddressed my brief message, above. It should have gone to YOU.
Dr. P.
It is obvious that he is choosing the beer over you, because if someone really wanted to be with someone, he or she would make some compromises to keep that person. As you said that there were some issues early in the relationship. When you see things like that, it is probably a sign.
You have to think about your future. What happens when you have children and he continues this behavior? I know it is very difficult to leave someone...I am trying to leave a relationship now also, but in the long run it will make you much happier and relieved that you did leave.
If you are not ready to leave at this moment, maybe you can try separating from him for a while and make it known that it is because of his drinking. If he really loves you and wants to change, he will. If he does not show any effort, then he is not worth it.
I hope you all the best!
Dear Key,
I see your question has been answered by someone from the community. If you need an answer from me as well, please let me know.
Sincerely,
Dr. P.