All he wanted was to sleep with me, so good bye!

[LittleTiny Me]

I've known this friend of mine for years. We had our moments. He would get me mad and I would stop talking. Then we would go months without talking to each other until either one or the other looked for the other (if that makes sense) It was like our thing....we be mad at each other and we stop talking for a certain period of time. & so on. To this day, I cant help to think.....wtf was he thinking when he said that line?!

Since then, I swear I feel more uncomfy when I see guys looking at me. I think of that line over and over and gets me upset. If you're wondering what was i that lead to this? Well one day, I was at home and my back then friend decided to chat with me. We started talking like our usual. Our convo became so tense like if he was mad or something. Our of nowhere he blurts out how he thinks hes better in bed than my bf and how I should give it a try. Other lines like how I should hook up and have random sex. I was so in shocked I even stopped replying. I wondered how a convo about how our day was jump to sex.  I remember I said, good bye but he kept chatting with me....he kept sending messages. One of those messages read "I'M TIRED OF TRYING TO SLEEP WITH YOU!" Even more upset, I said w/e bye and blocked him. Since then I cant seem to get that last line out of my head. And I dont know why. I dont know if its the thought that a friend that I've known since Jr high to a few months back would say something like that. I felt so weird telling anyone this. This would be the first time I'm mentioning this (probably also why its been bothering me...since I havent talked much about it)

[LittleTiny Me]

No feelings. Just so bothered by it that it still gets to me knowing a suppose friend would say such a thing. I'm just staying away hoping he doesnt realize he made a mistake and decides to go looking for me. I even changed my screen names and have blocked him from everything. Downside is, we live a street away from each other.

Ive never had a friend like that at all. Guess theres always a first ;*(

[Judy246]

Gotta agree with gumby this time...the guy has feeling for you and he doesn't realize that you don't feel the same way or do you?....anyway, I would stay away, until he get's the message. Good luck

[gumbygumby]

It's hard to imagine he would be your friend for so long if all he wants is sex. It's not hard to imagine a guy saying something stupid like that either. Especially if he's been holding feelings for you inside for a long time, sexual or otherwise. What he said was wrong and hopefully he will be sorry.