Anal Sex, Women's view

[SeriousSam]

I see all these posts about anal sex and have to wonder, do any women actually enjoy it or is it just something that is done when both partners feel like throwing a bit of freaky into their sex life for a change?

[KKCC]

How do you clean yourself before going through the backdoor? I've tried various ways but have ended up either feeling weird or hurting myself a bit.

[Crystlas]

It does not make your butt get loose either.  If a man is huge and does it alot to you, yes that can happen, but if you do it only once in awhile there is no harm.  Also Kegals can be done for the butt too.  I do both exercises.  As far as what hetro men like, trust me, more men than you know like their prostrates stimulated *wink*

[Crystlas]

We are just very creative lovers!  We use a variety of toys and like to be highly stimulated.  I just thought I would share my support on anal being a good thing once in a while and in good taste.    

[SeriousSam]

I don't think anything is wrong with anal, my experience just been more in line with what slow healer stated.  If you using a plug obviously you guys are doing stuff to lessen the discomfort!  Heck maybe you just know more than I do!  Not really that hard to do lol.

[Crystlas]

I actually enjoy it!  My first husband hurt me cause he was large and it was uncomfortable.   But my now fiance, and the only other man to do me anal, feels really good.  He is average size and it feels good, because all my nerve endings get stimulated in a different manner.  It is not something we do alot, but something we enjoy on occasion.  He prefers my vagina cause I am so tight, but I enjoy when we do it anal.  He also uses a butt plug on me sometimes when we do it doggie style it is one of my most favorite sexual experiences of all time.  It is amazing to have all my nerves stimualated at once.  So I guess it depends on the individual and what they like for their body.  We are very open sexually with each other and like to experience new things.  As far as the poo factor goes, don't do it when you need to go poop! LOL... Well, just wanted to share that there are women in this world that likes exploration.  If you think it is sick, don't knock it until you try it!  Well, time to go have some fun in the bedroom with my love!  

[slow_healer]

To throw in my two cents here, I've tried it and found that the fantasy/idea is more of a turn-on than the act. With the act you have to be SO patient, re-freshing the lube constantly, and telling your partner to take it slow. Ironically it's the least-relaxed sex position. Teasing is fine - it fuels the fantasy - but unfortunately the act itself is just such a bother that it really doesn't accomplish more than being able to say you've done it.