It is all normal. As far as positions, try them all. Why limit yourself.
lol its no problem, i never talked to my friends about anything like this. i was the person that stayed online until 4am trying to find all this info out myself lol... if you have a question, just ask... any of us in here will be glad to answer... you will get some people that like to B**** about you and your situation... just like i did at first... you just gotta deal with em and if you can, put em in their place =) there are alot of people in here who like to help instead of just argue... good luck though, and if you have any other questions for me just message me... have fun and stay protected!!!
Erica-
Thanks for you response!! I don't really have many friends and the of the few i have 4 are gay so I can't really ask them for advice lol.
The feeling of having to pee is normal... You kind of get used to it though, and it eventually doesnt feel like you have to pee. There is a risk, but its very little if he fingers you without washing his hands. I never let my boyfriends do it to me. They respected that wish of mine, and if they didnt respect it, they dealt with it. Sperm swim, its rare, but possible to become pregnant if he cums on your vagina, but not inside. But like i said, its rare...
The hands thing, are you gripping them tightly or putting them in a certain location... My feet normally go numb... they get tingly and numb... but the only time i have had my hands go numb is when i was gripping the comforter so hard that i just couldnt feel them anymore lol... just try to pay attiention to what your hands are doing before they go numb (if you can take your mind of sex, that is =)
When me and my boyfriend first started having sex we had it 5 or 6 times a day... we waited as long as it took for him to get hard again... Guys are very sensitive after climax, I normally enjoy torturing them during that period of time. My ex became ticklish down there, so id let him start to sleep or close his eyes and then touch and he would jump and laugh... it was a little game lol...
My first time i was on top... but my first time we did it 3 times within 2 hrs lol... there was also very little time between, maybe 5-10 minutes... MAYBE... one of my favorite positions is being on top. I love doggy and i love having my legs rest on his shoulders while he is on top. Best thing to do is google or yahoo search kama sutra and look for different positions... the best thing to do is experiment. If he is very large and you are fairly shallow, some positions can cause discomfort, so, take that into consideration before your ankles are crossed behind your head lol... Also, if he is small, doing it doggy or with your feet up on his shoulders while he is on top will get him deeper inside of you, and it will feel alot better...
The oral thing, well, the glans are the most sensitive for almost all guys... when im going down on my boyfriend i stick around that area... the back of the tip of the head is where its at for him... as im sucking him i rub my tongue up and down the back side and he loves it... I never really did much oral... didnt really like it that much lol...
The best thing to do is just try things... how the guy reacts will let you know how it feels for him... but, dont forget about how things feel for you... if you dont like what is going on, or if something feels good, let him know... dont be mean about it if you dont like something, but say something like "i loved it when you did - - -." he will go back to that since you loved it lol
I wish you the best of luck, and if you have any other questions, just ask lol...