If your relationship was as perfect as you say, then no friends or family could tear that apart. I'm not sure if I'm reading your post correctly..but if I am..you shouldn't have to choose between your family and your love. I would hope your family would support you in your choice even if they don't agree. Is it possible your love has some really bad qualities that family members might notice before you would? The old saying "love is blind" is oh so true. How long have you been together? Could you share a little more information?
You do not give enough information to ans this post luck jo
I agree with treazzure, it's hard to tell what's going on, but it sounds to me that you're in a relationship that seemed perfect but it's souring because your family and friends don't approve of him/her, so the relationship is on the rocks now?
If you're in a relationship and your family and friends don't approve, you're probably in the wrong relationship.
Just my opinion.
your post is vague. going on just your question, I would have to look at my husband and our love and say it's worth breaking up my familys relationship or friendships I have if it ever comes down to that for some reason. he's my soul mate. however, if it is the new person who's entered your life that's causing discord among you and family and friends and/or demanding break ups to take place, then that new person would have to be dropped.