am i alone?

[confusedandwanting]

Am I along, or are there other women who have DH's who just act like babies.  My DH has tantrums.  Whenever we get in fights he gets so mad that sometimes he shakes, he says things without thinking so whatever comes out of his mouth makes no sense, hes been known to jump up and down when mad, rip some things up.  Like right now im laughing thinking about it.  But when its happening, sometimes it scares me. He would never ever hurt me.  Hes such a sweetheart all the time.  I mean he has his bad days.  But lately these temper tantrums, i dont know, they are just very baby like.  

[mami1323]

Sounds like he was spoiled as a child and if he doesn't get his way he reverts back to that childlike behavior.  Was he used to getting his way all the time when he was younger?  What were his previous relationships like?  My fiance acts immature when he doesn't get his way he gets upset, nothing to the extent of jumping up and down and tearing things but he has attitude.  It also seems like a way of controlling things.  Is he controlling?  You're not alone though, I'm sure there are a ton of men out there that act similar to your dh.  Just don't give in to him when he acts like that.  Either walk away or just ignore the behavior all together.  Once he sees that his tantrums are not having an impact on you, they will subside.  Treat him like you would a child, put him in the corner and give him a time out ; )

[Butterme]

I'm wondering if he's depressed?  You said he has a lot of bad days.  I think he need to address this with his doctor.  I hope you find some answers.