I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for as long as I can remember. It gets in the way of my relationships, and generally ruins them, as then anxiety causes me to overthink, and then the depression sets in.
Last Saturday night, my boyfriend and I were texting while he was out with his best friend at the bar watching his dad's band play. While texting I asked him if He'd be coming over the next day to spend time together. He said that he would be. So I asked if he'd be staying overnight as I really enjoy waking up next to him. He said he was pretty sure he wouldn't be able to, and that he believes he had plans with his best friend again. I overreacted, and got upset because I didn't see why he can always hang with his best friend, especially several nights in a row, but when it comes to me, I feel like I don't get to see him as often as his friend does. My boyfriend said not to "get bent out of shape over it, jokingly, and he said he'd be here all day prior to spending time with his friend. But I still got upset. I feel like each week, he gets his work schedule and he makes plans doing things he needs or wants to do, and I have to be penciled in, basically I just feel slighted. Finally I got upset over how it makes me feel, and I told him I couldn't do it anymore, that I felt like I didn't get time with him like he gives to his friend. I told him "he was free". He responded with "wow, you always think I'm doing something I'm not, but thanks for setting me free though :)". I had already as soon as I sent that more or less break up text, I immediately sent one saying I apologize, that I didn't mean it, and didn't want that. But he sent that text about setting him free, and he never responded to my other texts. I tried to call, left a voicemail. Nothing. No response. I tried the next three days to contact him, all were left without response. He changed his relationship status on Facebook, and restricted what I can see that isn't public, which I noticed there really isn't much of a change on his page, but I noticed he got rid of all the pictures, and other stuff I tagged him in while dating, I don't know if they are just hid from his page, or what, but they aren't there. It's been 9 days since I've heard from him last. I stopped trying to contact him Tuesday, but tried to just ask him a few days ago if I could just have a drawing back that I did for him as I don't want it thrown out if he really doesn't care about it.
Anyway, sorry for the long post, but it's eating me up inside that he never responded to me, and hasn't tried to contact me himself even though I apologized several times for how ridiculous I was, and said I didn't want to end things.
For several months now we had been talking about our future together, which the night before my unruly outburst he ended up bringing up again stating he still wanted what we talked about. He was planning to get me a ring, he wanted to get a house together, get married eventually, and he mentioned maybe several years from now trying to have a baby together.
I'm unable to sleep, and haven't had much of an appetite as my depression is getting to me, and I know I acted childishly, but I know he is acting immaturely also by not speaking to me and ignoring me as we are adults and should be capable of communication. I just don't know what to do.