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How often do you and your mate have sex
lol. now ladies don't lie, but lets hear how often we all are having sexual relations with our partners? Might be an interesting subject.
Sometimes it is daily, sometimes twice a day, sometimes once a week. It all depends on moods, how well the baby goes to sleep, etc. Before kids, it was a few times a day. Seems like forever ago!
We are always affectionate, we still cuddle to sleep at night, still make time to play "kissy-face" every day : )
We are always affectionate, we still cuddle to sleep at night, still make time to play "kissy-face" every day : )
You ladies are so lucky!! My dh has to get up at 4am for work, so we usually only do it on Friday and Saturday. I must say that it has been a few weeks though. My dd is handicapped and sometimes I have to lay down with her to get her to bed and I fall asleep :( It is so funny because when he was on nights, he would come home from work and want me to do it, now that he has to get up early, I want him to wake up and do it. Needless to say, there is not much sex going on at our house. Also, we have two sons (13 and 12), so we have to wait till they are asleep lol. Glad someone is getting it though lol.
John has to be up at 4am for work, too. Makes it rough on him but he would gladly give up sleep for sex. Our biggest hurdle is we co-sleep so having sex means leaving the room : )
haha mozart. Yeah im only 20 and my bf is 24 and we have sex MAYBE once a week, if im lucky. Yes me...hes always too tired. Im too young for this!
In my case it's about 2-3 times a week depending on my mood since I'm 27 weeks pregnant. It's getting harder by the week and we have to be very creative to find a comfortable position. Plus I'm starting to feel real tender so it's not that easy. I must say though it feels so different than before in a good way. :)
Hmmm, I notice that Laura didn't answer her own question. So how about it, Laura?
As for me, I'm going to wind up not having ANY sex until SOMEONE gets himself fixed and quits giving me these pregnancy scares! I may have to take matters in my own hands! It's just a couple of snips, right?! Or I might just join a convent or something. Maybe I can get some peace and quiet there. :) There are some days that sound real nice.
Yeah, I know. I'm in a weird mood tonight. :P
As for me, I'm going to wind up not having ANY sex until SOMEONE gets himself fixed and quits giving me these pregnancy scares! I may have to take matters in my own hands! It's just a couple of snips, right?! Or I might just join a convent or something. Maybe I can get some peace and quiet there. :) There are some days that sound real nice.
Yeah, I know. I'm in a weird mood tonight. :P
We do the deed almost everyday except on Wednesdays when the kids come over for the night and every other weekend. The 4 year old still crys to sleep in Daddy's bed, so we have to wait until we know she is asleep. Last weekend though both the 7 & 4 year old were screaming to sleep with Daddy.. it's a constant battle with getting them to sleep in their own room. But anyway, back to sex. =) My man likes to wake up in the middle of the night to do the deed too, so it's sometimes 2 a day... once before bed then in the middle of the night and we ALWAYS get our quickies in the morning.. unless the kids are over, then we have to wait. My favorite are the quickies, nothing like waking up beside a sexy man with a warm body!!!
To clarify we do NOT have sex with the kids in the bed! It kinda sounded like we did in my first post.
laura didn't answer her own question cause as soon as i posted it yesterday, i had to go find the face mask to my little girls breathing treatment machine. turns out you now have to have a doc call it in cause people are using it to sniff paint, so my 2 year old was having issues with her asthma, and i was trying to get a doc to call it in....... you know those little green masks they put on your to give you oxygen in the hospital? that is nuts. i had the meds for it, and the machine, i just needed the 2.00 green mask.
anyways, it depends on john's work schedule because he works 12 hour shifts on a rotating basis, and it also depends on when our daughters finally get to bed.......
some weeks we do it a few times, and then sometimes we don't.
i think many answers depend on peoples ages, and how long they have been married, and also the age of your children.
but on average i would say a couple of times a week.
anyways, it depends on john's work schedule because he works 12 hour shifts on a rotating basis, and it also depends on when our daughters finally get to bed.......
some weeks we do it a few times, and then sometimes we don't.
i think many answers depend on peoples ages, and how long they have been married, and also the age of your children.
but on average i would say a couple of times a week.
My man would literally EXPLODE if he had to wait more than a day for sex. He wants it even more now that I am pregnant.
very intresting to hear all your answers!
During the day when DH and I call / IM each other, we talk sex and we will definetely BD....but when we get home we get so busy with kids, feeding them, giving them a bath..... as soon as they are asleep which takes all our energy I fall asleep right away. So i would say once a week at the most!
Before we had kids, it was an average of 2-3 times a week, especially WEs
During the day when DH and I call / IM each other, we talk sex and we will definetely BD....but when we get home we get so busy with kids, feeding them, giving them a bath..... as soon as they are asleep which takes all our energy I fall asleep right away. So i would say once a week at the most!
Before we had kids, it was an average of 2-3 times a week, especially WEs
There is nothing more satisfing than to send a man on his way to work with his belly full, his lunch packed, his coffee in hand, and a smile on his face. He is an amazing partner and a great provider.
Wow. You seem happy. Does your DH work alot? I guess we just seem busy too. He works 7-4 then we are always running errands and the baby doesnt even go to sleep until 8 or 9. By then hes asleep!
He leaves the house around 6:30AM and doesn't get home usually until after or right at 7PM except on Wednesday when we have two of his daughters. Right now it is just the two of us in the house full time... but that will change in 4 months. =)
We will HOPEFULLY find out on the 28th @ 1PM. =) We would love to add a boy to the group (I think my man suffers from estrogen poisoning sometimes) but a sweet little curl with a head full of beautiful brown curly hair (like mine) and big beautiful blue eyes (like his) will be welcomed with big strong open arms too! =)
Well I did up until yesterday when I saw Quinns Mom post and my BF saw your baby's name .... he wants a unique classic name so we may go with Ava Quinn, but I also like Annelise. He had originally picked out Regan Cybil but he is still tossed up. We have definitly picked out the boys name though it will be Robert Cash... he at first insisited on "Ronnie Cash" and I pitched a B i t ch. =)
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