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I do not love my husband anymore
i am an asian married for 2 years and i fell out of love with my husband. we were together for 4 years before a i walk out of his life. we reconcile and married after 2 years of separations. we reconcile due to comfort and convenience. when he proposed, it was in the heat of the moment tat i said yes. we had several huge arguments within this 2 year of marriage, one resulting in me trying to commit suicide. i was unable to do it bcoz of the thots of my family. we have totally different lifestyle, he's a homely man where as i am a very out going person. i have tried hard to make the marriage work but i am unable to love him anymore. i do not hate him, but i don love him. i am caring out of guilt since i am married to him. i have found his constant probing anoying and i know he has been hacking into my computer to look at my stuffs. should i leave him?
It may have also been an oversight. People read someone's question and have advice to offer and they don't even look at the date of when it was posted (especially if it's on a forum that isn't used very often and the post is within the first page or two). I couldn't tell you how many times I've responded to a post and not look at the date and after I push post I notice it was from a year or two a go. It's really not that serious.
Oh Mayflowers, what makes u think that, that lady has moved on. Come on grow up. The article was posted only from the year 2007 not 1997 right. Listen ur speaking as if she is ur friend & u knw everything abt her personal life. She has not confirmed how has she moved on. Probably got a divorce or is she still with her husband. She has not confirmed anything out here. Probably maybe since her husband hacked her computer, he wud have changed her password to access this forum and she is no longer able to access it.
Anyways, Mayflowers, letz hope things r fine with u and her..
Have a nice weekend ahead...
Anyways, Mayflowers, letz hope things r fine with u and her..
Have a nice weekend ahead...
Ok, this post is from 2007. It's over a year old. I bet this lady has moved on. Why are all these old posts being brought back up?
Hi there, you cannot leave him just b'coz he hacks into your computer. If he hacks into your computer, then you shoould also hack into his computer. Ok I am sorry, jokes apart. He probably is hacking into your computer because he is probably too pocessive about you. He loves you very much. You should atleast be happy that he is only hacking on to your computer & not on your mobile phone. I am sure he is not checking out the sms rec'd by you on ur mobile phone, & the incoming & outgoing calls rec'd and made by u.
If itz mainly computer hacking part that is making u frustrated, then I have a suggestion, walk down to the store, get ur urself a laptop & have it password protected & when ur leaving the laptop at home & going to a party, then u can lock the laptop in a locker(I just hope he does not hack into the locker). These days u get lockers that require keys & a digital code inorder for you to open it. U also get lockers that wud open up only on face recognition or finger print recognition. So u can look into that option just to have ur computer frm not being hacked.
Nw the other part of ur problem where in lifestyle being diff frm ur husband's lifestyle. Well firstly why did u get married if u both had diff lifestyles. Nw tht u hav got married, then dont think of breaking ur marriage. Just wrk on things. Talk with ur husband. Wht u can do is for example, u can tell him that of the 7 days in a week, 5 days u both shud spend according to ur individual lifestyles. So u can have ur night out 5 days a week & he can have his peaceful life chilling out at home by himself 5 days a week. And the remaining 2 days u can spend it this way. That is 1 day, he should visit a party or disco with you & the other 1 day u wud actually spend it with him being at home.
Trust me this way he wud gain more trust in u and he wud not be so pocessive.
Pls do let me knw how was my amazing suggestion.
Thank you..
If itz mainly computer hacking part that is making u frustrated, then I have a suggestion, walk down to the store, get ur urself a laptop & have it password protected & when ur leaving the laptop at home & going to a party, then u can lock the laptop in a locker(I just hope he does not hack into the locker). These days u get lockers that require keys & a digital code inorder for you to open it. U also get lockers that wud open up only on face recognition or finger print recognition. So u can look into that option just to have ur computer frm not being hacked.
Nw the other part of ur problem where in lifestyle being diff frm ur husband's lifestyle. Well firstly why did u get married if u both had diff lifestyles. Nw tht u hav got married, then dont think of breaking ur marriage. Just wrk on things. Talk with ur husband. Wht u can do is for example, u can tell him that of the 7 days in a week, 5 days u both shud spend according to ur individual lifestyles. So u can have ur night out 5 days a week & he can have his peaceful life chilling out at home by himself 5 days a week. And the remaining 2 days u can spend it this way. That is 1 day, he should visit a party or disco with you & the other 1 day u wud actually spend it with him being at home.
Trust me this way he wud gain more trust in u and he wud not be so pocessive.
Pls do let me knw how was my amazing suggestion.
Thank you..
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