Well, any hobbies you feel like exploring? You need to get a bit more going on in your life so that you don't obsess over a guy. Goodluck . . . you are at a hard age and I wish you well
I don't know if I got it right , but it seems like you need some ideas on getting ur mind off James . First of all , you're 14 , right ? So I guess it's pretty normal, and also 2 years age difference isn't that bad. If you ask me , I would suggest ,( if you absolutely cannot forget about him ) try to atleast maintain a friendly relationship with him. You never know what might happen , he might re-discover you . However if you do not want to try that , you can always do things you like i e : hang out with friends , shopping . Anything u enjoy to keep you busy .I recommend hanging out with friends , socialise ... that way u can meet new people , .... might even find an even more spectacular guy .Might not seem like it, but you'll see .
Wow they are both great tips! And. Am defiantly going to tie the idea of having a friendly relationship with him but I already do trampolining 3 times a week, gymnastics twice and babysitting once an of course studying! So I am well occupied! I just can't get over him!:(
You are so young and I think just about every young person experiences this. Trust me, there will be a day when you will be over him.
At your age, I would recommend focusing more on your studies, hobbies, etc. just as the above poster has already mentioned.
When I was your age, my school courses were extremely heavy and I also did alot of volunteer work and was heavily involved in school plays, band, etc. I didn't have my first real bf until I was 18 and graduated from hs.
Try to keep yourself as busy as possible. This is just a phase; trust me.
But I don't think it is a phase! 2 years is long and has seemed like a decade! It's so hard!:(
Have u tried talking to him?
What do you mean? About what!?:)<3