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In need of a guy's advice

Hello!!
Here's the thing, i'm having bf issues. We've been together for almost 11 months now and I'm completely inlove with this guy. I've had one serious relationship before him, but this time it's different bcz I love him more than everything and don't want anyone else. I gave him everything, you got the picture i guess. Anw, he's so moody lately. Whenever were with his frnds he seems to be enjoying his time and he's the guy i know, but when its just him and I hes so cold, distant and he doesnt realize it. I try to get close to him but he pushes me away without even noticing it. Im not trying to look self centered here but I'm a really pretty girl and i get chased by lots of guys. He doesnt see that, i make myself pretty for him and instead he checks other girls out and when he looks at me he says 'why are u putting make up on' or 'what's with that shirt' or 'why do u look so tired and pale havent u been sleeping?'. I'm starting to hate myself bcz of him and envy other girls.. Whenever i say anythn even if im just joking he gets pissed and asks me not to talk like tht again. Whenever im going crazy and making baby voices ( which used to make my exes go crazy) he gets so mad and walks away saying that i need to grow up! He once wanted to hang up the phone on me bcz of that. Whenever i make a joke he dsnt react but when one of his or my frnds do he laughs so hard.. I rly love this guy but i need to know whats wrong with him. I hate myself when im around him its like im the killer of his joy! I start doubting myself bcz all i ever do seems wrong according to him! If i want to update my fb profile he gets pissed bcz he believes changing my pic or my status is just an excuse for guys to notice i'm there. I told him all i feel yesterday and i didnt get a clear answer he just swore to me hes nt doin this in order to break up with me.. Shall i believe him?what shall i do? I dont want to be with anybody else.
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I know how much you love him,etc,but do you really want to be told what to do all the time,how to dress,if your allowed to wear makeup,the whole FB thing.Sounds like he,s having his cake and eating it to and that,s not fair to you and it appears he,s not very nice to you either.Do you really want to be with a guy like this?You seem to be a nice person,you may deserve someone nicer,your call.All the best.
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And You like him why????

And how many red flags do You need????

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